Sarah pull up your big girl pants!!!..... there are people that are solo parenting all the bloody time, I do I work full time, have 2 dogs and the kids, I have Wednesday off as my parenteral day, but I'm at home doing paperwork for work while the baby naps, I'd love to be getting my eye lashes done, i get my hair twice a year I get my hair trimmed. But we work opposite one another some weeks, he does be away for work too, were looking to get married soon and were trying to save as much as possible and save our leave for our wedding were hoping to go to Italy to get married. You wanted the third baby you got not stop moaning!