Sarah must occasionally takes breaks from her internet furniture shopping to look around her brand new 4 bedroom home (bought during a stamp duty holiday) at her healthy children, husband back from deployment, her big Christmas tree and all her pots of paint to wonder where it all went wrong.....
Exactly this. I am a single mum of one renting an ex council flat for about double my council neighbours are paying
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But you know what? My daughter and I are healthy and happy. We have a roof over our heads and food in the cupboard. I treated my child and family to lovely Christmas gifts and was grateful for the lovely items I received. We have lovely neighbours and a lovely flat that my landlords have let decorate in a neutral way to our taste and just leave us to it as we pay our unsubsidised rent on time (A mortgage payment would be less than my rent on this flat, however I have no savings and my salary wouldn't allow a mortgage on what I would need to borrow) We can pay our bills. I have a full time job I absolutely love and have been grateful to have kept in a volitile environment. I have been furloughed most of the year which is crazy, I haven't worked and have had the luxury of being paid and looking after my child. We have had a great, albeit quiet and sometimes lonely Christmas. My view on life is that there is always someone better off, and worse than you. If you dwell on the negative, instead of focusing of the good, you will never be happy. No money, item, relationship, house, child etc will magically fix this. I might never be able to afford to buy a house, but does this take away from what I have achieved In life? No. Some people are seeking something they will never achieve. You should be grateful for what you have, now more than ever. I am a perfectionist that has suffered mental health issues in the past, but have grown to realise what really matters in life. Never live your life for others. If you cannot realise and appreciate what you have you will never be happy. Sarah is coming off as being absolutely ridiculous and spoilt, it's embarrassing. If this is what she is sharing with every Tom, Dick and Harry she must be 10 times worse at home and absolutely insufferable. She is completely unrelatable!! Sorry rant over!!! Moral of the story....be grateful for what you have!!!!