That’s my point. I didn’t see her post, only her story that lead me to her post. No trigger warning, no need to share it to her story if she wasn’t looking to make sure everyone saw it. When I miscarried it was horrific, a shock, I didn’t know I was pregnant to begin with and it wasn’t a baby born sleeping. It was traumatic and I couldn’t bare to include my partner in it but I would NEVER compare that pain and confusion to a woman experiencing a stillbirth of literally born sleeping.Shared her post to her story just for good measure to make sure she gets plenty of attention, sorry I don’t pity this at all, it’s sad a baby lost it’s life but not one bit sad for burps, her baby wasn’t born sleeping it was a miscarriage, clearly used the term to make it sound like she had a still birth because it sounds all the worse and more pity for her. Pity party for 1 in onslow gardens tonight, she’s such a tit!
Wow. Calling it a pity party? The woman is just after having a miscarriage, hardly a pity partyShared her post to her story just for good measure to make sure she gets plenty of attention, sorry I don’t pity this at all, it’s sad a baby lost it’s life but not one bit sad for burps, her baby wasn’t born sleeping it was a miscarriage, clearly used the term to make it sound like she had a still birth because it sounds all the worse and more pity for her. Pity party for 1 in onslow gardens tonight, she’s such a tit!
I’d say she was 12-13 weeks. Must have been her 12 week scan, she wouldn’t have been getting one otherwise. Lots of people opt to take the tablets or wait instead of a D&C. Tough going at that gestation. Proper labour pains. They may have kept her in hospital for a few days to make sure there were no prblems when she was miscarrying. Born sleeping is a strange thing to say but I just think she’s a bit clueless when it comes to terminology. Hope she’ll be okay and not take the piss with her posts in the next few days +weeks.How many weeks was she? They may have waited a week to re scan her to make sure there was still no HB. They have to confirm that before they can medically manage an mmc. My mmc wasn’t fully complete for 4 weeks as I retained tissue so had to have an erpc despite delivering a baby that was brought home and buried.
That’s my point. I didn’t see her post, only her story that lead me to her post. No trigger warning, no need to share it to her story if she wasn’t looking to make sure everyone saw it. When I miscarried it was horrific, a shock, I didn’t know I was pregnant to begin with and it wasn’t a baby born sleeping. It was traumatic and I couldn’t bare to include my partner in it but I would NEVER compare that pain and confusion to a woman experiencing a stillbirth of literally born sleeping.
This part really confuses me.. I’m lucky enough to never have had a miscarriage so maybe it makes sense to those who had?
I had an mmc at nearly 20 weeks and had to take the medication as my body didn’t go into labour naturally. I’d no other option. They don’t do d and c after 12 weeks. It was painful but not as bad as a full term labour. I wanted the pain to prove he was born and was in the world. I think she was earlier than 12 weeks more like 8 to 10 weeks.I’d say she was 12-13 weeks. Must have been her 12 week scan, she wouldn’t have been getting one otherwise. Lots of people opt to take the tablets or wait instead of a D&C. Tough going at that gestation. Proper labour pains. They may have kept her in hospital for a few days to make sure there were no prblems when she was miscarrying. Born sleeping is a strange thing to say but I just think she’s a bit clueless when it comes to terminology. Hope she’ll be okay and not take the piss with her posts in the next few days +weeks.
I'm simply guessing here but I'm thinking if it took a week she refused a dnc. Waited for it to happen naturally or else with medication. The statement she made exactly how we hoped I think is referring to how the baby entered (delivered vs DNC) rather than the sleeping part. I know from my own experience I've had 2 losses around similar times. 1 came naturally and baby was fully formed just tiny. But the 2nd was a dnc and I wasn't allowed see as the baby had come apartEntered the world sleeping exactly how we hoped it would be ???? Sorry now but what wer they expecting they would be awake? Terrible situation for all involved horrible thing to have to go threw but what a statement
I would disagree. But that's each person's own perspective.Agree anyone that has had a miscarraige 12'
13,14 weeks knows exactly how awful it is but we do know it is not a baby born sleepinv ,
This. "Born sleeping" is a term for a still birth ie 23+ weeks.Exactly I've had 3 miscarriages in up to 15wks and my best friend baby born sleeping at 38wks they are not the same
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