And don't forget they laugh and they laugh, don't we Keettt, we do And we do be skittin', just us two, on our own, having our own time because we never get any time alone shur we don't Keeeettt, we don'tThey might not talk all the way up but they talk about loads of things, which is it???
Absolutely no judgement here at all. I think its a really brave decision to make because it means putting yourself and your husband first and that is not always easy. Both our families are dying for us to have children-there are already grandchildren on both sides from our siblings but relations arent great with both daughter in laws so I understand them wanting us to have a family. But it's just not for us. My age is a factor and increases risks and we don't want it enough to risk that. Plus we love the little life we have and the freedom-though we go nowhere really . It has been hard but they have finally stopped dropping little hints.I really do believe this bleep has a collab with therapie, you can smell it a mile off!
So...please no judgement... my husband and I were looking into ivf. I'm based in a place where Ivf, one or two rounds, is free on national health. Great. We started looking into it and found I've got stuff wrong too. We sat down and had a big long talk and a think and though look, the reason behind us wanting kids and wanting to go ahead with it would have been for fear if we didn't we would have regretted it- which isn't really a very good reason to go ahead and do this, and also it's not fair to deny people who are longing and yearning for a child of the opportunity based on a potential regret. We also felt if it was meant to be there would be a way but as it stands we figured fate was deciding for us and it's grand.
One of the biggest factors in not going on was cos of other people and them missing out when we were doing it maybe for the wrong reasons. This bleeping idiot is there wanting a kid to level with her ex and for bleeping Instagram. Like what the duck. And if this total head gets it free while less fortunate people are scraping by, unable to afford it it'll be so bloody unjust! witch !