Just don’t see the need to be saying all that shite over SM? Never understand the need to do that when someone either in same room as you or you going to see them soon. Plus why would you do that in the circumstances?
However, I will say that these things are always more complicated. I left my husband, effectively for someone else, however had it not worked out it was the right thing to do. Ex goes around playing the martyr tells everyone I had an affair. Even though he had multiple affairs through our marriage, ended his first marriage that way and was somewhat nasty after a few drinks and had a penchant for hitting me. And once nearly our daughter which was when I totally lost all love for him. So, point of all this long post is that it’s never that simple or “juicy” it’s just all a bit sad and confusing and I hope everyone IS happy and moves on.