Our Sal,
Lets be under no illusion, we, the tax payers are paying for you and your family. The people that you screw for money, are paying for you and your family.
'can go on summer holidays with my kids if you want' lets face it love, you cant be arsed to be a mother at home so why would be bother to be a mother and take them away. You would rather hoe around with your 'BFF', that you change everyday.
Do what you feel you need to do, but don't pretend that you are something else, cos we no you ain't!