To be honest I'd never admit to posting on here. I've seen some of the other threads and...whoo boy!!!I don't have a Twitter, Facebook or Instagram. I discovered Tattle because a few years ago I used to watch Mrs Meldrum on YouTube and she started alluding to being harassed by some trolls (sound familiar) and that led me here. The Mrs Meldrum thread is beyond vile.
See if this link works to @cholulamare’s original post:Ah, ok, it must be the link, sorry.
I haven't gone in there to have a look but they are always posting!That's certainly true. The Prince Harry/Meghan Markle one is off the scale.
That’s serious deep analysis! Totally agree it would be preposterous to think that anyone would contact her on holiday to report a bit of humdrum snark on a gossip site. So she’s now outed herself as a tattler.Yes I was just looking at these posts again @Disillusioned as I couldn't make head nor tail of them last night. This is what I've got...
She's saying we ("gaslighting trolls") are blaming Lauren ("an innocent, bullied loved one") for misquoting us on things we have said *directly* to her (that she has screengrabbed), and we are lying to ourselves about this. She is definitely talking about here, because there was a suggestion here last night from at least one person that it must be Lauren who is twisting what's said here and giving Sali a different version, due to the fact that what is written and what she says is written don't add up (ie. she's not reading here herself - hmmm). She says this happens "on and on, across platforms", and accompanies the stories with screengrabs of deleted tweets and her responses to them, on the topic of breast reduction/bra size.
I think we can only assume that she has linked a user here to someone who has sent her something she didn't like on twitter, correctly or incorrectly, and that's why the outburst. She might be absolutely justified in this - this person may have been nasty to her on twitter, deleted their posts, changed their tune when talking about the same subject on tattle, then accused Lauren of twisting what's been said here. It's possible.
It sounds like it's one person. Maybe more, who knows. But it can't be everyone here who has participated in conversations about the twisted versions of discussions here that Sali receives, presumably via a close friend, which is the entire point: people were questioning her constantly presenting a version of events they didn't recognise, and why that would be. We've not all said things to her directly - I for one have never messaged her.
FWIW, I still think she must read here herself. I can't imagine any situation when it would be appropriate to contact a friend/employer when they're on a family holiday abroad to tell them IMMEDIATELY about (relatively innocuous) things being said about them/their assistant and get them worked up to the point that they're posting stories about it at midnight. She must have read it herself in real time.
I totally get that. Always good to check oneself every now and again. I actually didn't start posting to comment primarily about Sali, but because you were talking about beauty and skin care issues in a relatable way. Most online beauty stuff isn't catered to our age demographic (I think i'm right in assuming majority of us are middle aging gracefully?) That's why I've stuck around for the last month.That’s serious deep analysis! Totally agree it would be preposterous to think that anyone would contact her on holiday to report a bit of humdrum snark on a gossip site. So she’s now outed herself as a tattler.
However, whatever the rights and wrongs of it, she’s clearly in a state and I’m beginning to think I just don’t want to be part of that, however tenuously. The facts and concerns about her lack of honesty are already laid out here for anyone to see. But I’d miss you highly expert and fecund guys... may be I’ll hang around and only comment on beauty? *fence sits*
I feel the same. I don't think we've done anything wrong but I also don't like how she's clearly distressed. Have mixed feelings on the whole subject.That’s serious deep analysis! Totally agree it would be preposterous to think that anyone would contact her on holiday to report a bit of humdrum snark on a gossip site. So she’s now outed herself as a tattler.
However, whatever the rights and wrongs of it, she’s clearly in a state and I’m beginning to think I just don’t want to be part of that, however tenuously. The facts and concerns about her lack of honesty are already laid out here for anyone to see. But I’d miss you highly expert and fecund guys... may be I’ll hang around and only comment on beauty? *fence sits*
Quite possibly. That’s one reason I pointed out that her current upset isn’t just based on this thread, as there’s a risk of us getting caught up in her drama.Or a cynical person might say she's ramping up the victim playing in order to make posters here feel guilty and ashamed so they stop posting.
I think she meant across platforms as in Twitter and TattleQuite possibly. That’s one reason I pointed out that her current upset isn’t just based on this thread, as there’s a risk of us getting caught up in her drama.
Well she also mentioned deleted posts. But it’s definitely beyond being solely about this thread.I think she meant across platforms as in Twitter and Tattle
These screenshots may be from a Twitter conversation around a year ago. I wasn't part of the conversation (I've never been part of a Twitter conversation involving SH) so not sure why I remember it. I think it started with someone saying something like: Great to be home and take my bra off. SH responded to the tweet - again, vague memory only - saying something like: I'd be so uncomfortable not wearing a bra. The original tweet hadn't been aimed at SH; I think it was just something about which she had something to say.It's weird, looking at the screenshots she posted of the deleted tweets and her replies, it seems to be a relatively innocuous conversation about having big boobs - why would she reply so civilly if they had been rude or abusive? That would be extremely out of character. So if that's what this is based on, I don't think anyone from here is bothering her on Twitter or IG; if they were and there were worse things to post, she would post them, surely?
I'm not going to self censor myself because Sali's feelings are hurt. She's more than welcome to come here and challenge any one of our posts or have a discussion with us. Or actually address any actual hurtful comments. But where else am I going to harp on about nuface?!
Yes, that’s it:These screenshots may be from a Twitter conversation around a year ago. I wasn't part of the conversation (I've never been part of a Twitter conversation involving SH) so not sure why I remember it. I think it started with someone saying something like: Great to be home and take my bra off. SH responded to the tweet - again, vague memory only - saying something like: I'd be so uncomfortable not wearing a bra. The original tweet hadn't been aimed at SH; I think it was just something about which she had something to say.
My memory is that there then ensued a Twitter conversation during which SH said what her bra size was and that she always slept in a bra. As the screenshotted extract suggests, she also mentioned considering surgery. I don't remember there being anything in the conversation that would have been upsetting to SH or any of the participants.
That Twitter conversation was then picked up here (I noticed it when I was going through the early threads the other day to write the Wiki thing). The discussion starts with someone saying they're surprised at SH putting that type of personal information in the public domain, but I don't think there was anything unkind about the discussion here. I think it was mostly people saying whether they personally would or wouldn't sleep in a bra.
So, yes, not sure why those deleted tweets were relevant. Yes it does show that SH had directly engaged in a social media discussion around her bra size - but, if it's the discussion I remember and if I've remembered correctly, it was she who had brought up the subject and the conversation had seemed perfectly amicable.
I feel a bit ridiculous writing about something so trivial but I do feel angry about the way things seem to me to be misrepresented and the upset it then causes.
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