Aude
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When I was trying to summarise the content of this forum I forgot to include one important element that drives discusion here - our response to her attempts to silence us.Tbh, I find her whole response to here weird.
In pursuit of her career as an influencer, she puts content online - including her image, her opinion and information about herself and her private life - and we comment on it between ourselves. She also writes a short weekly article for the Guardian and ocasional other journalism which we also comment on.
Our comments are mostly critical because there is no other outlet for criticism of influencers. Sometimes our comment and criticism is about something completely trivial, sometimes it's about something really important. There's serious criticism and jokey piss-taking. Some of us are pretty detail oriented and pick up on small inconsistencies which we feel cast doubt on her integrity and reliability.
Often a discussion here might be prompted by something directly related to SH and then broaden out more generally - whether about influencers more generally or about our individual skincare routines. Sometimes it's absolutely nothing to do with her - sharing advice and experience about products for example and providing support.
If that's a fair summing up, what about that is 'bullying'?
ETA: We are small group. She has well over 100k social media followers and a platform in a national newspaper.
To recap... Her initial strategy seemed to be to try to intimidate people individually. It was around the middle of thread #3 that people here started noticing that she or her assistant or a known friend (CM) were 'stalking' them around their social media. A number of people said they felt intimidated by it, one said she was leaving the forum because of it. By SH's own admission, her intention had been to show them they had been seen. By her own admission, she had pried into the lives of people here to the extent that she knew where they lived.
It was after people tried to bring attention to this behaviour that she tried what seemed to be a new strategy - to mobilise her thousands of social media followers and well-connected contacts to get the whole site shut down. This was the Friday video. She did get an enormous amount of sympathy from followers and also public support from well-known figures who themselves have huge followings. Some, such as Nigella Lawson and Marina Hyde, just tweeted support. Others, such as India Knight, piled on with abuse and what could be taken as intimidation.
Others reacted differently. I hadn't heard of Tattle and was curious to know what this 'bullying' was that she was talking about. I came here in the middle of thread #3 and, finding it different from the way she had described it, went back and read from the beginning. I thought the criticism in a few posts was unkind but I thought it was mostly reasonable comment about valid concerns. In reading through I looked specifically for the type of content, and the specific instances, SH had described in her video and couldn't find it.
Up till then I'd found SH a bit irritating and perhaps not quite living up to her 'honesty' USP but hadn't thought about it much. I was now outraged by her attempt to use the power and influence of her hundreds of thousands of followers to close this down, a small discussion forum with - at the time - maybe 30 members. It seemed as if, having pretty well shut down criticism and dissent in her own social media, she was now seeking to shut it down across the entire internet. Part of my reason for joining here was to show solidarity with this oppressed minority! There are all sorts of other reasons why I stay but that is still part of it.
Her current strategy seems to be to mention the 'hate site', 'internet weirdos' and, most charmingly, 'arseholes' whenever she has a public platform - shamelessly misrepresenting it as 'lies' and 'conspiracy theories'.
Clearly, the more she does, the more content she provides for discussion here.
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