Sickening. Everything she does and presents online is what would be expected from someone who started their main relationship aged 13. She is still that 13 year old girl. Developmentally stunted. She got everything (she thought) she wanted, rushed into marriage to act like a grown up and was groomed by a man who at the time was nearly twice her age. Her lack of identity, her inability to clean and tidy, her obsession with her phone... sounds like a 13 year old to me. There's so much growing to do emotionally and socially between the ages of 13 to 18 and beyond of course as we all know! She skipped it all to show off to her friends, tantrum-ed her way through her teens and most likely forced her parents to be OK with it like any teenager would when they think they're 100% right about everything.
Not saying anything new here but it's the first time I've really verbalised it and it honestly makes me shiver. How I know this much about a stranger is also pretty wrong. She has declared so much of her life online, posting on Instagram has become her whole personality.