I get the frustrations some have with Rosie as her complaining can seem quite trivial. However that aside, if we want parents to be honest with their mental health struggles, whether it goes as far as PND or not, we need to allow them the space to do so. Shooting someone down with “just be grateful you can have children” just turns the whole thing into a competition which helps no one. We all have our struggles in life, whether we have been blessed with children or not. Just because some struggle with fertility doesn’t mean everyone else shouldn’t be allowed to say that pregnancy/birth/parenting is tough. If someone’s content is too triggering for you, then leave it well alone and find other content that brings the positivity/support you need.People did previously say a page or so back that she better not moan about the baby as it’s ungrateful because people have miscarriages.
It’s horrendous people have miscarriages but that doesn’t mean people shouldn’t say how hard it is to have a baby. Even without it getting to the PND stage - I never got PND. But that doesn’t mean I didn’t find it bloody tough and want to complain about it quite a lot.
Where does it end? You wouldn’t say someone who has had a miscarriage shouldn’t moan because people are dying of cancer and won’t live a full life.
Bring influencers to account 100%, some of the stuff they do is absolute dogger. But there’s always someone at the opposite end of the spectrum so she can’t please everyone. I would much rather see Rosie complaining than Hinch pretending she has a perfect life then bringing out a memoir detailing her struggles later to make money.