I wonder how much of their weird frustrated dynamic comes from how rushed their timeline was. They met, went on holiday, got married, had a baby a year later, went straight into the baby/toddler stage, Robin only just because independent and they had another baby, all with Chris barely being home. They’ve only been married 8 years. My partner and I have been together 5 years and all we’ve done to far is buy a house (very recently). Have they ever really been alone at home together for any significant length of time without being mam/dad? I would be sick of my life too no matter how rich I was, or I’d have gotten into that situation by loving being a stay at home wife/mother and would be moaning less. I do get the impression that Chris is the one who loves the most and is not upset with how life is going but he also did get to be absent for about half of the hardest years