Found this online but could have been written for Myler:
Originally Answered: Why do some men abandon their child/children?
Not sure if anyone noticed that many of the responses are blame shifting and narcissistic*. Be accountable for your actions. Own your conscious decision to walk out the lives of your children, pay your financial obligations, and heal from there. Dragging the mother through the mud speaks volumes about your immaturity and lack of accountability. Extremely selfish to play the martyr when you have spiritually and emotionally wounded a child. From these comments, many of you have yet to own your actions 100%. Shameful. Look at yourself and the mirror and say, "It was me. I made the decision to walk out on my children". No one else. You did it. Your feelings may have changed towards their mother but her commitment, selflessness, love, devotion, character is proven by her actions towards her children shows, she wasn't the one that walked out on them. You did.
* Remembering some of the slimy comments written under the guise of "Cardenal Mendoza".