Has for the comment ‘can you genuinely be happy in life without children’ it’s not has simple has that when you wake up everyday for 9 years with a ache in your heart knowing your son won’t have a sibling and that you really want something but can’t have it, it’s not a case of wake up and accept it, it’s an hard one because unless you really understand and relate where I’m coming from it just won’t make sense.
I would never leave my partner for not having children but I feel lied to so I can say it’s pushed me away a little.
I feel like you should have said you have a child already where the whole post implied you didn’t.let’s just say, we are 8 years in (almost 9) no children!
it really breaks my heart that I can’t be a mum, I love my partner with everything but most days I feel like I’m living my life with regrets and that’s not what I want to do.
As a person who spent over 6 years of my life TTC with no luck until I was 38 I absolutely do understand the ache, which is why I couldn’t personally stay in a relationship which didn’t allow me to fulfill by biggest goal in life. You say “you really want something but can’t have it” but you can, you’re not being allowed it. There’s a difference.
I stand by the earlier comment that you have to find a way to be happy without another child or break up. It’s just my opinion of course but if you’re in a relationship where you feel lied to or have to repress what you truly want you do have to make peace with it or move on because it’s unlikely he’ll do a 180 and it’ll all be fine unless he has some issues stopping him wanting a child that he can overcome.