Wow lots to catch up on here! She is older, more isolated and in a what appears to be a very one sided relationship with someone who made it abundantly clear he didn’t want any more kids.There is only one way this is all going to end…badly. Can you imagine if this new baby has any severe abnormalities or developmental issues? He will be gone in a puff of smoke. Also I’m sorry but how stupid can he be when it comes to being careful? She must have spun him some right guff about natural cycles..she would’ve known full well when she was ovulating/fertile. He should have had the app and tracked it as well if he’s not prepared to have the snip or stick something on the end of it.