The more she posts of woody, the more it highlights how underdeveloped Alfie is. With his speech, his movements, etc. There is absolutely no shame in having a child with additional needs (I have worked with adults with learning disabilities and Autism for the past 10 years) - all they're doing is holding him back by not getting him the correct support IF he has additional needs. I don't like to speculate. But he definitely seems behind his 4 year old brother.