I'm 49,and live a much fuller life than her. I've raised my now 18 Yr old twins whilst working full time as a nurse and not once have I ever felt by putting them first have I given up my identity or deprived myself. She harps on about 'mums can do this and mum's can do that' but most importantly something she never mentions is, being a mum, your kids ALWAYS COME First, setting a good example, teaching basic life skills and instilling a work ethic are what makes a good mum or dad, let's not forget the single dad's or families where dad is the 'main carer'. Being a strong woman is not about behaving like a bleep or flashing your tits, it's about responsibility. Sorry for the rant but Rebecca the dumbass hasn't got a clue about being a strong independent woman, only a leech and a slapper.