My daughter is 2 tomorrow and is struggling to talk but is getting better day by day , but she is very very understanding, I am in contact with my health visitor and she’s not to concerned yet but we will monitor it
Rebecca Lamb #171 Mrsrebeccahobson Beggy Hob get a job, new house pending no more pretending
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I remember my wee one getting a home visit from the nursery when she’d just turned 2, and she was showing them her rock collection (
) She was able to point out the smallest and biggest rock. I just can’t even imagine R being able to comprehend that, never mind follow those simple instructions.
Obviously, we shouldn’t really compare as every kid is on their own wee journey but I do believe her Mum is so thick that she doesn’t even realise R’s speech is concerning or that they really should be doing more to stimulate and engage her, starting with letting her walk.
) She was able to point out the smallest and biggest rock. I just can’t even imagine R being able to comprehend that, never mind follow those simple instructions.Obviously, we shouldn’t really compare as every kid is on their own wee journey but I do believe her Mum is so thick that she doesn’t even realise R’s speech is concerning or that they really should be doing more to stimulate and engage her, starting with letting her walk.
Your children don’t need to be the best you just have to do your best, and it’s clear you are doing a great job!! Xx
You at least identfied an area you were concerned with and approached your HV. You have done the best thing for your little one and not just ignored your concern
Funnily enough I was listening to happy mum happy baby today and the latest episode is on speech and language (go give it a listen Beggy you might find it useful 
) apparently 1 in 5 children need speech and language therapy so it’s so common there’s nothing “wrong” with it at all. And the expert said the best time to get help is at nursery age prior to them starting school. Luckily for Roma she’s a September baby, because if she was born 10 days earlier she’d have been starting school in two years time which would have been a worry, hopefully within the next 3 years she will get some support with this. The expert also said it’s not necessarily about the child’s use of words, but it’s also about their ability to understand, listen and follow instructions (as many of you have already said). If anyone is looking for a bit of additional advice I’d definitely check it out.
) apparently 1 in 5 children need speech and language therapy so it’s so common there’s nothing “wrong” with it at all. And the expert said the best time to get help is at nursery age prior to them starting school. Luckily for Roma she’s a September baby, because if she was born 10 days earlier she’d have been starting school in two years time which would have been a worry, hopefully within the next 3 years she will get some support with this. The expert also said it’s not necessarily about the child’s use of words, but it’s also about their ability to understand, listen and follow instructions (as many of you have already said). If anyone is looking for a bit of additional advice I’d definitely check it out.
The Fringe doesn’t talk because she’s had Beggy’s saggy tits shoved in her face since she exited the cavern, be it breastfeeding or carriers.
I think the poor kid actually looked terrified! Probably too used to being told to be quiet, being talked at rather than talked to. Beggy hasn't got the intelligence to be able to have a conversation with a dog let alone a baby.
Yes I thought she looked scared too ! v strange
I just don't know why anyone would post their child being like that really , it was like she was making fun of her
Pulling up a seat for the crying drama when she closes the door on the "fuurrevah" home for the last time, followed by an Inspirational quote about "New Beginnings" and "Don't think you've let yourself down if you haven't got to where you want to yet" VOM!
I went back to re-watch - yes, she does looked worried especially when she was asked "is there anything else you want to tell me".
We all know Rebecca is the original "mean girl"... We all have our moments when we have had enough, but i dread to think how the kids get shouted/screamed at.
The latest story sat with Steve - he is one gormless looking twit isn't he?
... I hope when they've moved and the Boys want to play out with new mates, they won't have a moments peace - bring it on.
Could she not have sorted the Boys hair for the last day - Woodys hair looking more and more like a basin cut.
We all know Rebecca is the original "mean girl"... We all have our moments when we have had enough, but i dread to think how the kids get shouted/screamed at.
The latest story sat with Steve - he is one gormless looking twit isn't he?
... I hope when they've moved and the Boys want to play out with new mates, they won't have a moments peace - bring it on. Could she not have sorted the Boys hair for the last day - Woodys hair looking more and more like a basin cut.
I don't no why were all shocked that The Hobson kids are gormless, I mean, look at their parents. Beaver & Beggy, two biggest planks going.
And your daughter will thrive because you are clearly doing all you can to help her. The HV isn’t concerned & there probably is nothing to be concerned about, but at least if something does become a concern, you are already working on it!
There’s a scene in the grinch where it says ‘termites in his teeth’ or something in a song, (think it’s you’re a mean one mr grinch) and honestly the teeth it shows with the bugs crawling round remind me of beavers!!
Why have they got all Bishops Move boxes if they are doing the move themselves…
Probably bought someone’s used ones on marketplace or asked on a freebie site no way are Bishops Move doing her removal that costs
No one is actually shocked. And yes the gene pool in both the families fall short in the intelligence dept.
It’s the total lack of care, support or interest in their learning and development that saddens me. Both Steve and Rebecca are so invested in their own selfish needs and wants, that the children’s overall wellbeing in this area is seriously lacking
I was thinking exactly this. My little girl had hearing problems caused by deep ear infections that were missed for about a year as I was told she'd be visibly distresses in pain etc and they couldn't see anything by checking her ears how they normally do. Anyway it ended up as infections in the bone behind her ears and she was in hospital for it but in all that time she still had some understanding. They think she could hear as if she was under water and she still managed to grasp basic things and talk a small amount in a way i could understand (but no one else) she almost sounded deaf with the few words she could say.
Roma didn't even seem to be close to making the right sounds. But i also noticed at the she had her fingers as if she was counting but begs ignored it instead of using it a conversation starter.
she doesn't seem to have a clue, I know that as soon as I felt there was a problem I was on youtube watching speech therapists and reading up on how to help.
Since begs reads here bit of advice I found from both online and in person speech specialists, get the book brown bear and read it in a sing song voice tapping the pages with the rhythm. My daugther was mimicing this after a few weeks even though it wasn't very understandable and my son who had no delays was doing it by 18 months with actual words, he could 'read' the book by 2.
Does a child’s school record go to the new school when they move ???? Just thinking. will she have a clean slate regarding absences ?
Everything is forwarded to the new school. Sorry Begs
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