Rebecca lamb #11 An NHS drain because she's hasn't got a brain

[BettyCrocker]

She’s a ‘family vlogger’ There are sadly a lot out there that do what she is doing and she isn’t as big a vlogger as some family bloggers..... I personally wouldn’t chose to plaster my child all over the Internet I’m what most would call ‘overprotective mom’ I don’t like anyone taking or having pictures of him. I have my reasons for this but to me I value his safety and he is my entire world. I wouldn’t want him in a few years time seeing things over the internet that he may not be happy with.

I see a different side to her when I speak with her I think is more her personally that I can relate to in some ways and I don’t tend to watch her YouTube channel much it’s more the IG stories.

For me I’m finding it tough at the moment which I will admit so sometimes I like to have a little input and see how others are doing it. I don’t think any of us are perfect parents etc but I do think she loves her boys and is trying the best that she can.

Think you need to remove the Rose tinted glasses. She’s awful.

 

[Justabrowser]

If your going to put your family on social media you better make sure your on your A game I think it's that simple, i don't envy her one bit because she is doing her best but keeps getting it so wrong, so publicly, if she's so happy and content with her life I think she should put the vlogging camera down get a nice stress free job in her local town and enjoy her life other wise just accept that people will have opinions and learn to politely engage with all .

I agree I just think maybe their is a way in how to say things that are constructive? I wo

Think you need to remove the Rose tinted glasses. She’s awful.

I try to see the best that’s all or else I’d just be negative all the time lol.

I honestly don’t think that she is as bad as some of them but I suppose we’re all different

When you are doing your best that is all they need, keeping them safe and loved. It’s the first thing I have the issue with Rebecca, some of the things she allows her children to do aren’t safe. Parenting is hard the fact that you have stated getting help makes you a fantastic parent. The fact Rebecca doesn’t even acknowledge that Alfie might need help is not doing everything she can to help him. Please be kind to yourself and believe me we all have harder periods parenting, I didn’t overly enjoy the baby stage but love teenagers. Hug your child and when they are in bed have a bath and crappy tv. I don’t think tattle is a bad site, I fact I have found more kindness here than I have on Instagram. Sending hugs x

I have heard a lot of negative on this site but I’ve not found it to be half as bad. I think most of the people who say bad things about here aren’t taking the constructive criticism.

The baby stage I found easy because he was such an easy baby but since hitting toddler stage my goodness he has sass & attitude in bucket loads. It doesn’t help that I’m always reading between the lines thinking their has to be reasons why he is being a certain way and just going with the flow. It could be because I’m a single parent and I’m with him 24/7 because being a mom that’s what you do & I love being a mother but I can also hold my hands up and say this is tough. I do at times feel like a crap parent, I’m not strict & I don’t have many boundaries unless it puts himself or others in danger. I want him to experiment the world, to be independent and to most of all be a child and love his childhood as best he can. I do substitute for the fact his father isn’t present in his life though.

But you are so so lovely though thank you for the lovely words x

 

[123456]

I agree I just think maybe their is a way in how to say things that are constructive? I wo


I try to see the best that’s all or else I’d just be negative all the time lol.

I honestly don’t think that she is as bad as some of them but I suppose we’re all different



I have heard a lot of negative on this site but I’ve not found it to be half as bad. I think most of the people who say bad things about here aren’t taking the constructive criticism.

The baby stage I found easy because he was such an easy baby but since hitting toddler stage my goodness he has sass & attitude in bucket loads. It doesn’t help that I’m always reading between the lines thinking their has to be reasons why he is being a certain way and just going with the flow. It could be because I’m a single parent and I’m with him 24/7 because being a mom that’s what you do & I love being a mother but I can also hold my hands up and say this is tough. I do at times feel like a crap parent, I’m not strict & I don’t have many boundaries unless it puts himself or others in danger. I want him to experiment the world, to be independent and to most of all be a child and love his childhood as best he can. I do substitute for the fact his father isn’t present in his life though.

But you are so so lovely though thank you for the lovely words x

I don’t think she is as bad as some of them but she will become that if she can’t take opinions or advice because how she handles situations will trickle over into other areas. If Alfie’s teacher has a concern is she then classed as a troll?

We’ve all been there feeling crap about parenting, reading between the lines on behaviour, I know I have. My children (especially the youngest) runs barefoot. I sum up the risks, but I would never put her in danger all over the internet with clothing with names on especially in a foreign country, I teach them to respect animals and the earth and each other, we are allowed opinions and I want my children growing up having lots of them but also respecting others. I’m a single parent too, have been for 18 years on and off. You’ve got this! (Feel free to message for a chat) x

Really??? Can bet my life she spent hours getting herself ready today though. Absolute joke of a parent

Honestly feel sorry for him.

Weren’t those dungarees gifted then she can affiliate link them or get bigger ones since they are clearly too small, I don’t mind children in dungarees, mine are girls but I would certainly make sure they fitted and appropriate. I don’t think these are for Alfie. She had some lovely clothes gifted from mamas and papas and she decides to put him in these for filming

 

[Motherofcats]

Really??? Can bet my life she spent hours getting herself ready today though. Absolute joke of a parent

Honestly feel sorry for him.

I can’t even figure out what he’s wearing. Each to their own I guess, I mean i’m not a beauty/home/fashion/mummy/renovating/bride to be blogger but I take more pride in how I dress my son than I do myself! I can’t even go shopping for myself without spending all my money on him. Not only because I want to but because I genuinely enjoy dressing him and making him look adorable.
I’d rather go without if it means him have lovely clothes that fit properly and keep him warm/cool

 

[Freedomof Speech]

Did anyone read the article on Sky news today about Instagram causing eating disorders. It focused on accounts that show incorrect and harmful info on food. It highlighted the danger that people believe what ‘influences’ say and the damage it causes. Mainly clean eating account but reb should read the part where it said changing to ‘dairy’ free without proper nutritional guidance from REGISTERED professions is extremely dangerous as it can cause malnutrition (sudden lack of calcium and effects on iron absorption). I wonder how many others mums decided the one time their kid vommed must mean he’s ‘intolerant’

 

[Belladonna123]

Her hair here is actually awful! Is it that horrible filter she does because I don’t think it looked that bad in her IG stories??

 

[Halliestar]

I can’t even figure out what he’s wearing. Each to their own I guess, I mean i’m not a beauty/home/fashion/mummy/renovating/bride to be blogger but I take more pride in how I dress my son than I do myself! I can’t even go shopping for myself without spending all my money on him. Not only because I want to but because I genuinely enjoy dressing him and making him look adorable.
I’d rather go without if it means him have lovely clothes that fit properly and keep him warm/cool

Yes I’m the exact same

I love buying outfits for my two, i’d rather them have something new and me go without. Birthday and Christmas money I’ll say to myself “oooo I’ll treat myself to something new” I end up buying myself a cheap new top and the rest goes on the kids

 

[blondeconverted]

Hes wearing those grey dungarees with his name on .. but they are swinging above his ankles, with black socks and white trainers? I mean each to their own and all that

Im the same i have three girls 3 and under, and i take so much pride in their clothes whether it be going out clothes or even pyjamas!

She baffs me

 

[Cooper123]

Really??? Can bet my life she spent hours getting herself ready today though. Absolute joke of a parent

Honestly feel sorry for him.

These are bleeping hideous they don’t even fit him!! This is one of the reasons I detest this girl so much. Of course she’ll have her hair and makeup done, nice outfit on, while the kids look like 2 scruffs. Selfish mare

 

[ConsuelaBananaHammock]

What I don't understand is she goes on about "Internet bullies and gossipers" yet she reads trash magazines that downright lie about "celebs"... Seems a bit double standard to sit and gorge while reading crap about other people. Then she grabs a camera and poses while crying about people who are calling her out for her crap... So much for women building each other up eh?

So much this.

 

[viewtube]

So she's posted on Instagram they've taken the boys to the park Mcdonalds and pub, Steve has posted a pic of him with a pint. I wonder if they drove and if they did was either of them the designated driver not drinking any alcohol? I noticed when Steve was away with his mates Rebecca and her mum took the boys out and were both drinking alcohol, I assume on that occasion they either walked or got a taxi. If you're driving even one alcoholic drink is too much, not just the safety of her kids but other innocent road users and pedestrians

 

[123456]

So she's posted on Instagram they've taken the boys to the park Mcdonalds and pub, Steve has posted a pic of him with a pint. I wonder if they drove and if they did was either of them the designated driver not drinking any alcohol? I noticed when Steve was away with his mates Rebecca and her mum took the boys out and were both drinking alcohol, I assume on that occasion they either walked or got a taxi. If you're driving even one alcoholic drink is too much, not just the safety of her kids but other innocent road users and pedestrians

I think unless she posts that she is drinking we have to assume that she is not. If they are still under the legal limit then technically they are doing nothing wrong, morally is a different matter

 

[sickofthis]

OMG STEVES INSTA STORY [emoji24] why is that funny???? My partner jokes around like that but its between me and him [emoji31][emoji24][emoji24][emoji24]

 

[OhHelloThere]

He’s such a leech!!! His latest story.... he’s non stop, you can see in her face that she’s fed up with it

 

[Justabrowser]

I don’t think she is as bad as some of them but she will become that if she can’t take opinions or advice because how she handles situations will trickle over into other areas. If Alfie’s teacher has a concern is she then classed as a troll?

We’ve all been there feeling crap about parenting, reading between the lines on behaviour, I know I have. My children (especially the youngest) runs barefoot. I sum up the risks, but I would never put her in danger all over the internet with clothing with names on especially in a foreign country, I teach them to respect animals and the earth and each other, we are allowed opinions and I want my children growing up having lots of them but also respecting others. I’m a single parent too, have been for 18 years on and off. You’ve got this! (Feel free to message for a chat) x


Weren’t those dungarees gifted then she can affiliate link them or get bigger ones since they are clearly too small, I don’t mind children in dungarees, mine are girls but I would certainly make sure they fitted and appropriate. I don’t think these are for Alfie. She had some lovely clothes gifted from mamas and papas and she decides to put him in these for filming

Thank you for such lovely words I wasn’t sure at first about posting on here because I thought it would be truly horrible but I’ve found it isn’t as bad as what I was expecting ..... I know I will have totally different views to many and that’s okay because we all have different reactions to others I just try to be as kind as I can unless they give me a reason not to be.....

Sound like we are similar in our parenting styles I live and breathe for my child being a single mom I think that’s why I put him before myself and don’t really have a life outside of my son which I’m fine with. But he still socialises, he went to pre school and he starts school next week. I always wanted him to have those experiences as I think children need to be able to socialise and I didn’t want him being upset when he made the leap into full days at school. I’m trying to be the best mom I can be and sometimes I’m probably too intense. His school is amazing they will make sure that things are put in place for those just in case he may need it so that we don’t need to wait. He had gone threw a phase of where he was getting upset when I left him. Shyness & not wanting to go into main school so there helping him to settle in, put in place extra help if he needs it. I could be being silly but least o know the help is their.

Oh gosh I always worry about my child’s pants being small he’s skinny but tall so getting him pants to fit his waist as well as length is so hard because they fall down saying that though he is better dressed than me I don’t have much of an income which is why his needs come first which they should do in my opinion

 

[Bec3007]

God how unhappy does she look?! Why are her eyelids so droopy? I wish she would realise that blonde hair really isn’t for her. It washes her out and ages her by 10+ years. I think every brunette (myself included) have tried the blonde stage but I was 16 and trust me it was NOT a good look My hair is almost naturally black, basically like Rebecca’s and I looked like an absolute idiot!

 

[Justabrowser]

I can’t even figure out what he’s wearing. Each to their own I guess, I mean i’m not a beauty/home/fashion/mummy/renovating/bride to be blogger but I take more pride in how I dress my son than I do myself! I can’t even go shopping for myself without spending all my money on him. Not only because I want to but because I genuinely enjoy dressing him and making him look adorable.
I’d rather go without if it means him have lovely clothes that fit properly and keep him warm/cool

I’m the same I can’t help myself I just adore buying him clothes, books, toys etc I just want to give him the best that I can. Me on the other hand looks a complete mess I look at him and I’m like how have I created you your beautiful.

 

[OhHelloThere]

God how unhappy does she look?! Why are her eyelids so droopy? I wish she would realise that blonde hair really isn’t for her. It washes her out and ages her by 10+ years. I think every brunette (myself included) have tried the blonde stage but I was 16 and trust me it was NOT a good look My hair is almost naturally black, basically like Rebecca’s and I looked like an absolute idiot!

I think they look related if I’m honest

 

[nosey1980]

So she's posted on Instagram they've taken the boys to the park Mcdonalds and pub, Steve has posted a pic of him with a pint. I wonder if they drove and if they did was either of them the designated driver not drinking any alcohol? I noticed when Steve was away with his mates Rebecca and her mum took the boys out and were both drinking alcohol, I assume on that occasion they either walked or got a taxi. If you're driving even one alcoholic drink is too much, not just the safety of her kids but other innocent road users and pedestrians

It looked like a half pint and there was no images of her drinking alcohol... not a fan of hers but there is absolutely no evidence to suggest anyone drunk drove today

 

[Cooper123]

God how unhappy does she look?! Why are her eyelids so droopy? I wish she would realise that blonde hair really isn’t for her. It washes her out and ages her by 10+ years. I think every brunette (myself included) have tried the blonde stage but I was 16 and trust me it was NOT a good look My hair is almost naturally black, basically like Rebecca’s and I looked like an absolute idiot!

Same here im naturally very dark and desperately wanted to be blonde, but like you I was a teenager at the time. I know very few people who can pull off both dark and light hair.