Exactly this!
I for one personally would never enter another relationship if I was to split from my kids dad. Not until they were older, if at all. Both to protect them & not wanting a 'blended' fam, and because I'd never wanna waste my life in another relationship anyway.
Sentences are a bloody joke, I read today whole life orders without parole are reserved supposedly for those who are a danger to society, eg serial killers, child killings and terrorists. Well how come I've literally never seen any child killers caged under a whole life tariff?? How come all we see is them receive a slap on the wrist, eg a few years. Is that justice for that gorgeous innocent little boy? Nope