Sashafierce
Well-known member
Precisely my point - which there’s nothing wrong and awesome he’s able to be so close with women (he’ll grow to respect women really well, I’m sure) but it’s not often you see him around just ya usual boys, or burley men. I feel that his dad’s probably wouldn’t allow it anyway, doesn’t fit their ‘aesthetic’most of the family friends the no1 dad hangs out with seem to be girlfriends.
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Agreed, re reading my message and it does sound quite closed minded. I guess I just meant a guy that’s not all about looks and appearance/ content, and more focused on learning some other skills. Ie. skate boarding/ building/ kicking a ball/ climbing trees etc.A proper bloke? What does that even mean?
not sure I’m getting my point across very well, I promise I’m not trying to be a dick.
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You’ve worded that much better than me, role models was the word I was looking for! Thank you for articulating that so much better than me!You know a blokes blokes, a good Aussie cobber, who wears a blue singlet, some thongs and likes a VB while fishing. Lordie lord!!!!!!!
There is no such thing as a proper bloke.
I get what you are trying to say though. I am a single mum with a son, his dad is not involved in his life. I have tried to make sure he has a variety of male role models and different men in his life, so he can pick up different things from each of them. He has been to a school with lots of male teachers, played sport with male coaches and his uncles have been in his life.
Maybe this variety is what Reid is missing.
Also I wouldn’t be surprised if Reid has his “at home with dads” voice and way of acting when with them. Then at school be completely different and be a completely different kid at school. Like a lot of teenagers.