looking at those old posts a few things stand out. She used to do her own decorating and she worried about money and knew what pay day was. She was semi normal. And (I think) was pretty. Also her family did actually seem to love each other and be muddling through. She was authentically herself with the hearts and the fairy lights. Now she spends her time buying "fashionable" horrible home items and morphing into whoever is nearest her (Emily, Astrid etc). Her marriage is a tit show and her children have zero respect for her as everything is done for money or ads. She hires people to do her painting now, hires people to mind her kids and they now get the "posh wine" free. No price is worth what she's sold.