PTWM #82 Just a thought, PTWM is on tour, but she’s no Bob Geldof

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Poverty porn always backfires on influencers.

I think the reason why her downfall may be slower with it is that her fan base may have less going on up top than for some of the other mum influencers (this is my opinion, but given her content you can see why I think this way). So instead of seeing what the more intelligent audience see, ie I'm on a tour of deprived areas but watch me go out and shed loads of money on food and drink - her audience see her just doing the poverty stuff and having a good time.

Rachaele you read here so let's be up front. Don't be arrogant enough to think that, because it's your money, flaunting your wealth eating a meal is your right - immediately after the poverty content. Its a massive own goal. Look at the MOFOD debacle with their water tour and their luxurious lifestyle.

Yes, you can do both. But work out how to do it appropriately without coming across arrogantly, which wasn't helped by the awful comments made ie its our money, so what? So what is that you're supposed to be highlighting poverty issues and helping raise awareness of how others can help.

The whole influencer thing is a way of making people spend. It doesn't sit well with charity work on poverty.

Do you know... if she actually took a humble stance and said this has made me readdress my spending and extravagance I think she would get a massive positive result from that. Basic PR! Then maybe did a how I've cut down, how I've realised we are lucky, how I've made sustainable choices etc etc.

Do it but make it authentic Rach and don't then change back 2 months later...
 
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Sharing a post about donated shoes when we all know she asked people to for and then had PA Jo advertise and sell her own kids' shoes.
 
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The gym thing. There is significant evidence to prove that working out in a gym makes a big improvement on your mental health and well being. Obviously it also has an impact on weight loss and encouraging a healthier lifestyle. In some areas you can be prescribed gym visits to an authorised gym. There is also the idea that in going to a gym you can find a sense of community which is what Craig is trying to emphasise. However it can’t cure serious mental health problems and to have a lasting impact you have to go regularly for the rest of your life. I don’t suppose Craig helps anybody in actual crisis. I doubt he’d even pretend to know how to.
 
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Imagine Raq & J returning home on Saturday (after the Friday night partying to celebrate the emotional & tiring week they’ve had) to find that Willbobby can string a full sentence together & actually feed himself. He’ll be like ‘what the duck have you two been doing to me? No filming me & I've been in so many adventures & none splattered all over the gram. After a week without his doting parents & lots of interaction (hopefully) he’s going to be a nightmare for them 🤞👶🤣
 
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Can someone in Chester please explain the gym to me? I’ve looked at the page/website. Is the guy and staff qualified to deal with mental health? They say they’re life qualified with their own experiences, but what do they do if someone on the brink comes in?
Have they got good links with specific mental health charities? He’s got the calm cafe zone but what help can he give people?? I’m confused. And R portraying him like he’s a saint saying he’s amazing putting money back into the community, but I’m sure he’ll take a wage for himself and costs for the gym and staff.
Now don’t get me wrong, it’s great that he’s building this welcome space and environment for the community, with support from his community, but I don’t get R’s involvement in this. Jordan, I think genuinely wants to story-tell and inspire people to help their communities by showcasing these places.
Rachel on the other hand may have realised that she won’t have support locally for the Women’s centre, so has to convince outsiders that she’s this absolute saviour/saint and get support that way??
Her followers are already lapping it up and saying she’s amazing but she hasn’t actually done anything, and it bothers me.
I can’t believe that followers would be impressed that she has left Betsy to deal with T and talk to her head of year to discuss the bad day she had. The response she should have given her friend was to say she’d be straight on the phone in the morning.

Sorry for rambling but Rachel bothers me. Any other Instagrammer I can happily say they’re not my cup of tea and move on, but I hate people being duped.
I live the opposite side of Chester to Blacon but from what I have read in local newspapers the gym is located in a adventure/city farm in the middle of Blacon. Blacon is basically one huge social housing estate used to have a really bad name a few years but has improved over the years. I think He was looking at opening a gym in the chester area and chose the adventure playground, I don't know how much training he's had or his staff, if you google his name Craig Brown Blacon it brings up info
 
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My take on the gym/gym owner was he created the cafe as a safe space for people in crisis to wait until actual help for them arrives, not that he’s providing the mental health support. More tea and chat provided until the professionals arrive and take over.
 
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The ugliness inside is shining outside on those 2 mingers more and more every single day. R can have as much Botox, lip fillers and surgeries as she likes but she’s always gonna be ugly because inside she’s vile, and as for josh, well, his clothes and face say everything!
 
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And the fact it says she can go in a supermarket and pick up whatever she likes.
The communities she is visiting, some of those people go in the supermarket with a calculator in their hand totting up what goes in there basket and not being able to get everything they need with the money they have in their purse!!!!
(Iv done that before myself)
I still do that now add up what’s going in my
Trolley we aren’t on the breadline but neither well off and don’t waste money I can’t imagine living with not a care I’m the world off other peoples donations !
 
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Imagine if you asked that on insta? Replies would be:
‘Rach does sooo much and she’s entitled to a break. You need to give your head a wobble’

I imagine Rach gets very tired from donating her tears & heartbreak. She needs a fluffy cloud to lie down on.
I can’t understand how her followers are so short sighted in thinking she does so much that they have to pile onto any comments that they find unfavourable ?
I would love someone to ask them ‘ok if you can name 3 occasions where Rachel has helped someone ( not including her friends or employees ) my guess is they would be unable to answer that one!
 
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And shares a post showing she’s sent her lesbian lover and/or sister in law a bottle of champagne. Good work Raq, totally relatable.
 
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My take on the gym/gym owner was he created the cafe as a safe space for people in crisis to wait until actual help for them arrives, not that he’s providing the mental health support. More tea and chat provided until the professionals arrive and take over.
Yes, basically he will signpost them to different services, is that the same as Jordans cafe?

( can someone explain what Jordan does?)
 
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This "tour" of hers reminds me of Rich Kids Go Skint 🤣 Pretending to be humbled by those less fortunate but in reality she doesn't give a tit.
I wonder if she is wearing a man's T shirt and bicycle shorts in order to fit in and play down her wealth now it's been mentioned on here. She can hardly sit there crying about how hard people have it when her outfits cost hundreds
 
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I still do that now add up what’s going in my
Trolley we aren’t on the breadline but neither well off and don’t waste money I can’t imagine living with not a care I’m the world off other peoples donations !
Me too. I’m a stickler comparing prices even though for the first time in 50 years I’m now a little better off financially. When you’ve had to scrimp & scrape worrying where your next meal is coming from, can you afford to feed your children or is it heat or eat you don’t forget. I work with vulnerable people & thank my lucky stars every day. Years ago I was in a similar situation. I don’t believe for a second that Raq or her children have ever experienced poverty, apart from being skint/overdrawn the week before payday… Aren’t we all?
 
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How on Earth Bob is still galavanting around on this tour with Josh being about as useful as a chocolate teapot is beyond me.
She desperately seems to be trying to move into the “helping” sphere but forgets she got the majority of her followers through her “mum” sphere.
 
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Such a good looking couple🤢

That's a lot of luggage for 5 nights away🤔
Considering she's only been wearing cycling shorts and a t-shirt for the last 2 days.
They should not be allowed to reproduce.
It's wrong.
 
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Did she just try and say that this Craig guy has done all this stuff for his community because he didn’t have Nike or Adidas clothes as a kid? Ok…
Now that's a real sign of deprivation when you don't have named trainers!
 
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And shares a post showing she’s sent her lesbian lover and/or sister in law a bottle of champagne. Good work Raq, totally relatable.
Yeah, a £60/£70 gift set. She really has no clue, does she? But if anyone mentioned it or asked, it would be "because I can" 🤬
 
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Just checked stories over on Instagram quickly, PTWM stories came up first! Josh didn't look happy, it looked liked he had been waiting ages!
Why is he even there?
Paranoid his wife and Jordan may get a little cosy?
 
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