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Hi it’s Ava-Rose Apicella-Wells replying here (Vanessas daughter also known to you all as stepdaughter 2.) I’ve registered with my real email etc so you guys can see I’m not hiding behind a fake account, if you don’t believe me tell me how I can show on otherwise. This page has come to my attention recently. And I was having a quick scroll. Unfortunately everything Charity and step daughter 12 or 3 has posted is true also a lot of your guesses are right and very close to the truth. I won’t be here long. Thanks to everyone who has been empathetic to my mum and our family. Unfortunately I know not always nice things are put about my sisters Bets and Lu, I will always love them both so much, and they’re good kids. The screen shots of KDIL are real. I’m just replying to this message in particular as it made me chuckle- The part about Tony turning up with his bags, as if he left my mum first was soooo wrong. He actually turned up to our family home (which was soon sold by them both as you know) with R and waltzed her in to meet us 3 girls and my mum...who was actually so mentally damaged from abuse and in fear made R a cup of tea. I think this is hard for all of us “kids” we always knew the truth but kept the peace to stick together. And naturally you grow to love the people around you. Children are easily manipulated in many ways as we were, and lots goes on for little minds. R was a safe space when we were younger at Tony’s as if when she was there at least she would get the brunt of the abuse. As you grow older you realise how fucked childhood and the lies were and not all you thought was true. Its just been slowly brewing on us “why are we still going along with this bullshit?” R and I fell out when I was 11 years old (10 years ago) after she threatened to kick my head in over something I knew nothing about, after she left Jordon for her current husband. We became friends again in 2019 when I thought she had changed and I wanted a relationship with my sisters after 8/9 years of it being very weak. R was helping woman in situations like my mum was in when we were younger. This made me almost forget and forgive everything, what a wonderful thing she was doing...I thought. Almost like a re payment for how awful she treated my mum over the years. One of my sisters came to stay with us early January because of how difficult her relationship was with her mum in the house. This was when we saw R had not changed and she was sensational at emotionally abusing and manipulating her.- it rang a lot of alarm bells for someone who definitely should not be running a woman’s centre. Since this it got worse with r and the patch work team. I advised mum to pull out of the cic. Her behaviour towards mum involved with the cic was very controlling once mum set everything up and did all the hard work for them. I could not face my mum being controlled by R in a job when R has already controlled her the majority of our lives. Here’s your gossip. There’s nothing to hide. Unfortunately it has put a gap between us and our sisters but I knew R s controlling behaviour would do this anyway sooner or later. Boo is fully aware of what her mum is like and how she has treat my mum and others. But she is young and feels she has to tip toe around her. If they back lash at this. I have much evidence, videos and messages between parties from when she stayed. But it won’t come to that so don’t bother asking. Sorry not sorry Rach. Stop putting families against each other and you can’t fuck with my mum anymore.
 
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CharityDingle

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Firstly V resigned because she was duped into a CIC with false promises and has even resigned from her job for this opportunity. It turns out Ratchet was just using this as a cover and has her own motives, she’s using this for financial gain despite being on over 200k a year (with her pa on 60k) and to secure her new BFF (or lover 🤭)a job beside her.
Ratchet was never in a refuge she was in fact having one of her many affairs with her boss and was staying in a company flat, yet she’s convinced the world and herself she was in a refuge yet she will never be able to prove this because it’s nothing but lies which have benefitted her financially and made vulnerable people trust and confide in her with her fantasy stories.
I have been trusted with screenshots from ratchet herself slagging off KDIL (another influencer) who she now calls one of her best friends.. Evidence below..
She has shared personal legal statements taken from court documents without consent written by 2 of her ex-step daughters.. safeguarding at its finest and such maternal love❤
Ratchet made V’s life unbearable when she had an affair with “Tony” making V suicidal with constant mental torture for the duration of her relationship with “Tony” (10 years).. V is a very gentle and kind natured woman who try’s to see the best in everyone and always wanted the best for her children (3 girls) which meant forgiving Ratchet to enable them to have a closer relationship with their younger sisters. Ratchet is a very volatile person who doesn’t hesitate to cut contact with anyone including her own family or anyone who questions her tales.
Prior to Joyce she was in a sexual relationship with her sister in law( bird boys sister) which is a known fact if your from the torbay area as she’s got a reputation and she certainly upholds that.
9 children in total now come from broken homes due to Ratchets affairs, to her it’s just the patches that make up her family but to everyone else it’s called trauma.
Anybody want to hear anymore 🙋‍♀️

XOXO Gossip Girl
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CharityDingle

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Now I have your attention let the good times roll 🙌

Following up from my last post, the legal documents I mentioned earlier we’re missing some vital details when shared on Ratchets story several times regarding B being thrown across the room; Ratchet deliberately cropped out the part where she claims that this did not happen or the fact she also forced V to collaborate with her story to the police and threatened her stating she would take her 3 girls away from her and blame V’s mental health (depression) that was all bought on by the torment she continuously endured.

Ractchet also got Tony to sell V’s children’s family home under V’s nose while she was still living inside within the first year of Ratchet and Tonys relationship! Taking any equity and leaving them homeless. V has struggled financially ever since this and suffered with the trauma ever since yet has still worked her hardest to provide the best for her girls while Ratchet walked round wearing designer jeans and paying for prostitutes in Spain with her ex (but that’s another story🤭)

Ratchet also controlled V by doing her food shopping for her then dropping it off as she wouldn’t allow Tony to give her maintenance. Belittling her and making her feel inadequate, when V’s gas or electric cut out and she asked Ratchet or Tony for help they’d instead collect the girls bath them feed then drop them home, with on occasion a plate of food for V, another way to make her feel shit about herself! Pretty sure this is now called abuse.

Anyway Questions and Answers.. hit me up 🤙
 
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HOLY FUCKING SHIT

THIS IS THE BEST DAY EVER

GO FUND ME FOR YOU CHARITY! ANYTHING YOU WANT GIRL! CHAMPAGNE, STEAK, NEW HOUSE, CAR WE WILL GET YOU IT

THIS IS AMAZING 🤣
 
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Firstly V resigned because she was duped into a CIC with false promises and has even resigned from her job for this opportunity. It turns out Ratchet was just using this as a cover and has her own motives, she’s using this for financial gain despite being on over 200k a year (with her pa on 60k) and to secure her new BFF (or lover 🤭)a job beside her.
Ratchet was never in a refuge she was in fact having one of her many affairs with her boss and was staying in a company flat, yet she’s convinced the world and herself she was in a refuge yet she will never be able to prove this because it’s nothing but lies which have benefitted her financially and made vulnerable people trust and confide in her with her fantasy stories.
I have been trusted with screenshots from ratchet herself slagging off KDIL (another influencer) who she now calls one of her best friends.. Evidence below..
She has shared personal legal statements taken from court documents without consent written by 2 of her ex-step daughters.. safeguarding at its finest and such maternal love❤
Ratchet made V’s life unbearable when she had an affair with “Tony” making V suicidal with constant mental torture for the duration of her relationship with “Tony” (10 years).. V is a very gentle and kind natured woman who try’s to see the best in everyone and always wanted the best for her children (3 girls) which meant forgiving Ratchet to enable them to have a closer relationship with their younger sisters. Ratchet is a very volatile person who doesn’t hesitate to cut contact with anyone including her own family or anyone who questions her tales.
Prior to Joyce she was in a sexual relationship with her sister in law( bird boys sister) which is a known fact if your from the torbay area as she’s got a reputation and she certainly upholds that.
9 children in total now come from broken homes due to Ratchets affairs, to her it’s just the patches that make up her family but to everyone else it’s called trauma.
Anybody want to hear anymore 🙋‍♀️

XOXO Gossip Girl
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Didn’t just bring the tea! She brought the whole damn kettle! 👀
 
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tippingpoint

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I can’t tell my partner why I’m so giddy. I’m pacing about the living room with my wine in hand and Now 70s on the TV. If I tell him he’ll just say “Are you on the bitchy website again?” YES I AM
 
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tippingpoint

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Other people - Yeah I’ve got a few skeletons in my closet. Everyone does if they’ve lived a life

Rachaele’s closet -

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im glad you have come on and spoken out. I understand if you don’t want to get involved further, but do you know anything about the gofund me’s/PayPal/house buying that you can share with us? What does R say to people about Tattle?

I hope your family and B & T can move on with your relationships and leave R behind. Congratulations on the pregnancy too.
sorry I can’t comment on anything like PayPal etc. Me and her we’re still not talking at this point. I know she doesn’t want the cic to be on social media (a warning sign in mums eyes. Mum also couldn’t understand why everything wasn’t allowed to be transparent and above board). What I can say is she’s just been gifted her sofa from dfs, Emile has been gifted one by R and they gave the Dogs sofa to the woman’s centre cic and tried to charge the cic £60 for delivering the heap of shit- basically her tip run.
 
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Angel74

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Firstly V resigned because she was duped into a CIC with false promises and has even resigned from her job for this opportunity. It turns out Ratchet was just using this as a cover and has her own motives, she’s using this for financial gain despite being on over 200k a year (with her pa on 60k) and to secure her new BFF (or lover 🤭)a job beside her.
Ratchet was never in a refuge she was in fact having one of her many affairs with her boss and was staying in a company flat, yet she’s convinced the world and herself she was in a refuge yet she will never be able to prove this because it’s nothing but lies which have benefitted her financially and made vulnerable people trust and confide in her with her fantasy stories.
I have been trusted with screenshots from ratchet herself slagging off KDIL (another influencer) who she now calls one of her best friends.. Evidence below..
She has shared personal legal statements taken from court documents without consent written by 2 of her ex-step daughters.. safeguarding at its finest and such maternal love❤
Ratchet made V’s life unbearable when she had an affair with “Tony” making V suicidal with constant mental torture for the duration of her relationship with “Tony” (10 years).. V is a very gentle and kind natured woman who try’s to see the best in everyone and always wanted the best for her children (3 girls) which meant forgiving Ratchet to enable them to have a closer relationship with their younger sisters. Ratchet is a very volatile person who doesn’t hesitate to cut contact with anyone including her own family or anyone who questions her tales.
Prior to Joyce she was in a sexual relationship with her sister in law( bird boys sister) which is a known fact if your from the torbay area as she’s got a reputation and she certainly upholds that.
9 children in total now come from broken homes due to Ratchets affairs, to her it’s just the patches that make up her family but to everyone else it’s called trauma.
Anybody want to hear anymore 🙋‍♀️

XOXO Gossip Girl
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Fucking hell you are my new personal hero 😂 she was fucking Hannah?
 
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Firstly V resigned because she was duped into a CIC with false promises and has even resigned from her job for this opportunity. It turns out Ratchet was just using this as a cover and has her own motives, she’s using this for financial gain despite being on over 200k a year (with her pa on 60k) and to secure her new BFF (or lover 🤭)a job beside her.
Ratchet was never in a refuge she was in fact having one of her many affairs with her boss and was staying in a company flat, yet she’s convinced the world and herself she was in a refuge yet she will never be able to prove this because it’s nothing but lies which have benefitted her financially and made vulnerable people trust and confide in her with her fantasy stories.
I have been trusted with screenshots from ratchet herself slagging off KDIL (another influencer) who she now calls one of her best friends.. Evidence below..
She has shared personal legal statements taken from court documents without consent written by 2 of her ex-step daughters.. safeguarding at its finest and such maternal love❤
Ratchet made V’s life unbearable when she had an affair with “Tony” making V suicidal with constant mental torture for the duration of her relationship with “Tony” (10 years).. V is a very gentle and kind natured woman who try’s to see the best in everyone and always wanted the best for her children (3 girls) which meant forgiving Ratchet to enable them to have a closer relationship with their younger sisters. Ratchet is a very volatile person who doesn’t hesitate to cut contact with anyone including her own family or anyone who questions her tales.
Prior to Joyce she was in a sexual relationship with her sister in law( bird boys sister) which is a known fact if your from the torbay area as she’s got a reputation and she certainly upholds that.
9 children in total now come from broken homes due to Ratchets affairs, to her it’s just the patches that make up her family but to everyone else it’s called trauma.
Anybody want to hear anymore 🙋‍♀️

XOXO Gossip Girl
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Biggest shock for me in all of that is Rachaeaeaeaele having the nerve to criticise someone else's teeth! Does she even own a fucking mirror?!
 
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Dorothy-redshoes

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I don't care whats real or made up at this point. Something is going down, I know that. And I'm here for this entertainment 🤣
My schedule is now cleared for the day 🙌
 
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