I think step parenting after a bereavement is completely different from divorce/ break up. Of course you treat the child as your own in that situation and take on all the motherly roles. I would be confused if you didn’t do that. You sound like you know what your doing and are doing it well.
In terms of living parents. The key thing is respect and putting your own feelings aside. You have to respect the child’s other parent as their parent even if you don’t personally get along. It’s all people management in the end. I feel like HR dept sometimes
In terms of living parents. The key thing is respect and putting your own feelings aside. You have to respect the child’s other parent as their parent even if you don’t personally get along. It’s all people management in the end. I feel like HR dept sometimes