I don’t usually comment on here just occasionally read when I have time. But I feel like I need to voice my opinion to get validation that I’m not the weird one that sees things not as they are… basically I think giving your stepmum, mum, dad, stepdad etc. A cuddle is perfectly fine and if you still want to do that when you’re an adult then that’s great, but I feel like sitting on there lap stroking there hair and whispering in there ear is just extremely strange! That whole story she put up with seb just felt icky.. maybe because my parents didn’t really hug me very much as a child maybe I’m the weird one and maybe their relationship is beautiful. The way Josh walked in looked and walked out to what seemed like to get sebs girlfriend looked like he was also uncomfortable, I get that being close to your children/step children is great but there are some boundaries that need to be put in place when they become an adult.
It's not you at all. But it's not a step parents weirdness either. It's a ratchet issue. And her relationship and how she conducts herself. Being uncomfortable looking at these two is a problem reeking from them. And so your extinct to watching those two and their interactions is correct.
Don't question yourself on the step parent to child relationship vibe, and how it should look. Because there are many a step relationship that DOOOOES NOT look or give you icky feelings like these two.
She is totally inappropriate with him. In all ways. And he as an immature lad who's been groomed by this
bleep, and doesn't quite get how
bleeping fucked up it is. Although sometimes, he clearly does know and uses it to manipulate her. Basically he's a
twit and his fathers son.
She's almost(like she does with all men to gather them in) flirts with him. It's gross. And because its not natural and just performed for a purpose, it's looks off.
I've seen other step parents and their kids and I've never once got the vibe that it's wrong or feels off. This is on the cut that is Ratchet, not a view to a stepmum.