Jealousy or envy is one of those interesting catch-alls that is bandied around as a justification for any action. If you break it down it is completely in keeping with the character of people who use it frequently.
‘You disagree with my actions, thus you must be envious.’ As opposed to a more mature or introspective reaction of ‘You disagree with my actions, maybe the actions themselves were the issue?’
In the case of this barnpot, because her life is so materially-oriented she seemingly does believe that the money that she spunks up the wall on goods and services is a driving force for jealous trolls. What she doesn’t see is that her life as a whole is, to quote Malcolm Tucker, an omnishambles. Lurching from crisis to crisis, drama to drama, in the pursuit of content and relevancy is not what people (rational people) aspire to. You can wrap it up as being relatable, but dysfunctional is more apt. Disjointed relationships which rely on odd power dynamics are not worthy of envy. No amount of trainers will solve that one.