My parents used to mock me for wanting an education and it was traumatic. It stays with you forever and makes you doubt who you are.
“who does she think she is”
“why would they want someone like her at a university”
“start talking with a posh accent next”
“I’d rather she was pretty and nice”
“you’re not leaving books all over the place”
“you can’t expect us to be quiet just because you think you’re going to get GCSEs.
I chose education in the end, left at 15 to stay with a relative and be allowed to study. I’ve got two degrees and my own business.
Bur I’ve never forgotten how much damage they did. They didn’t come to my graduation, they haven’t spoken to me for years and they have no contact with their grandchildren. I know half of this is what sloshy wants but it’s a sad state and it will happen to them too. And I’m here