No absolutely not and perpetuate another cycle. I find alot of it triggering tbh and I am years down the line. I do genuinely believe in my previous post she has the messiah complex which is dangerous.or let any man near your kids so fast
No absolutely not and perpetuate another cycle. I find alot of it triggering tbh and I am years down the line. I do genuinely believe in my previous post she has the messiah complex which is dangerous.or let any man near your kids so fast
She is the type of person who can’t be single.I maybe speaking out of turn here but if you’ve just left an abusive relationship after 10 years then surely the last thing on your mind is dating again so soon.
It needs someone with time and research skills. I totally believe that her whole back story could be blown to shreds if someone had the time to look back into all her write ups about it. The article to the paper is extremely questionable.Right so if she is lying about the abuse and her going into Refuge (doing driving lessons and getting on debt management plan etc says she was there for longer than a weekend to me,) then someone knows the truth. Right now all we have is her word over V’s and that’s hard to go off.
The Refuge story is important as it’s the back bone of her whole persona. If that’s a lie or even embellished to look more than it was, it would be quite significant
I don’t think this. Not Messiah Complex or any form of mental illness diagnosis. I just think she is stressed, out of her depth, ridiculously egged on by the people she employs (for their own gain,) and has managed to cross fiction with reality in her own mind.No absolutely not and perpetuate another cycle. I find alot of it triggering tbh and I am years down the line. I do genuinely believe in my previous post she has the messiah complex which is dangerous.
Narcissistic definitelyI don’t think this. Not Messiah Complex or any form of mental illness diagnosis. I just think she is stressed, out of her depth, ridiculously egged on by the people she employs (for their own gain,) and has managed to cross fiction with reality in her own mind.
Sometimes peoples sense of self is so skewed that they believe their own hype. Then when they don’t live up to what they’ve pegged themselves to be OR lies become exposed they panic and hit out. She did this over her affair with Josh and now her career. Shes not mentally ill. She shows no signs of anything diverse or any traits. She’s a just a liar, heading for burn out.
Yes but that’s a personality, not an illness. She’s not complex enough to be mentally illNarcissistic definitely
No mate, but they can get a fancy coffee, sling their clothes in the washer and pick up some free toys for the kids. So lush!I wonder if Rach has thought any further ahead about what to do with the victims of domestic abuse, after she has rescued them?
Will she be there 24 hours a day to hold the hands of women and children who are too terrified of going out for fear of bumping into their abuser? The ones who are scared of the dark, scared of their own shadow.
The ones who feel too sick too eat, too depressed to get out of bed and shower, too miserable too carry on living.
Too drunk or high on drugs to be able to function or look after their children.
Women who are ashamed of themselves for staying with the abuser for so long & prolonging the abuse that their children suffer.
Will she be there for the women who self harm or try to end their lives?
Will she be there for the women who no longer have friends or family, because they have sided with the abuser ?
Probably not.
Domestic abuse does not end when the victims are."rescued" by Rach & her squad.
The long term effects of domestic abuse are exactly that, long term.
Often lasting indefinitely.
Have you thought about that Rach?
Have you got a team of counsellors, psychologists, psychiatrists ready to help?
Probably not.
Isn’t that the point. It may be signposted to women by professional services and quite rightly no longer advertisedI am local and I had never heard of this!![]()
And some sheepers, which is amazin, they will help take the victims mind off the reality of the situation.No mate, but they can get a fancy coffee, sling their clothes in the washer and pick up some free toys for the kids. So lush!
If she’s a narcissistic personality disorder that’s different, but I do think she has something which makes her manic . Like bpd or bipolar. Not to armchair diagnose but if she wasn’t insufferable I’d feel for her.Yes but that’s a personality, not an illness. She’s not complex enough to be mentally ill. She’s just to basic. A liar, but basic as hell
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I was thinking the same thingI maybe speaking out of turn here but if you’ve just left an abusive relationship after 10 years then surely the last thing on your mind is dating again so soon.
Yes, fair comment!Isn’t that the point. It may be signposted to women by professional services and quite rightly no longer advertised
Sloshy Joshy was me, but I’ve lost the will to live after seeing him on Sunday looking like Richard Madeley and Alan Partridges love child.If she’s a narcissistic personality disorder that’s different, but I do think she has something which makes her manic . Like bpd or bipolar. Not to armchair diagnose but if she wasn’t insufferable I’d feel for her.
Just adding this here for Slo-jo (whoever came up with that is the queen btw)
I think there's a bit of Dirk Diggler in there tooSloshy Joshy was me, but I’ve lost the will to live after seeing him on Sunday looking like Richard Madeley and Alan Partridges love child.
I can’t see any way out for me at this point. Might ring the laundrette and see what they advise
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