i’m sorry you’ve been made to feel judged when you’ve shared this! I breastfed my first and plan to with my second, but my main reasons for doing it were money saving. If I wasn’t able to do it or found it too difficult, I was totally open to formula instead but thankfully we had a pretty easy ride with it.Does anyone know why the stigma around not breastfeeding is so opinionated and emotional for people? I personally am unsure if I want to breast feed as the thought of it is making me really anxious but I’ve had such negative reactions when I’ve mentioned it. It’s such a personal thing, of course I want what’s best for my baby, but I also want to be 100% in myself. My friend bottle fed her little one and she won’t breast feed her one on the way as she doesn’t feel like she wants to. I don’t see anything wrong with that and I’d personally never judge a woman’s choice.
I think the actual stigma maybe comes from the history around the introduction of formula, how it was marketed as an easier way to feed babies and was better nutritionally, so the medical industry has always tried to push breastfeeding so as it isn’t seen as the less nutritional balanced choice? Nowadays, formula is so advanced that I really don’t believe there’s much difference (the only difference I guess is that breastmilk can adapt to specific baby’s needs, like if it’s hot or baby is poorly) but for a time formula was definitely not as good for baby as breastmilk so maybe that’s why people get defensive?