Isn't it obvious? If s man is not appreciative of your (type of) body, I don't know what he's doing with you in the first place.I didn’t get that and voted I wouldn’t be insulted. I’m a curvy woman and I know I’m more comfortable with a man who’s more appreciative of and has a preference for my type of body.
Although, obviously you do want to be seen as not just a sum of your body parts. There is a particular type of man who can be letcherous when it comes to that.
He must like you as you are.
That doesn't mean he can't appreciate other type of bodies.