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Heya!

You are not alone in this, a family member has been on and said pretty much the same as you have. Going from my experience in my own life she has so many red flags it’s unreal. I think it’s right that people who have a large following are transparent and honest which as it turns out she hasn’t been.
 
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Half if the time when she makes a purchase from a small business she only shouts them out so they'll refund her payment so she gets more freebies
 
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I know what you mean. I think the problem is she has proven to be a liar on other things, and it's not just little white lies either it's great big whoppers so therefore it makes you question everything she says
 
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This is what I was thinking. What if she’s fabricating stories to make it seem like she is helping
(Not saying she is)
I can’t think why you would put a dv survivor and child on such a huge platform and it’s not the first time she’s done it with someone. It doesn’t sit right with me.

I know what you mean. I think the problem is she has proven to be a liar on other things, and it's not just little white lies either it's great big whoppers so therefore it makes you question everything she says
The more and more that’s coming out the more I’m beginning to believe she may be a con artist and I feel awful again for saying it
 
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Hi everyone.
Just a quick drop in. Whilst I’ve been away, I’ve been working on an ethical way to get out information on this thread and in my article. I’ve also been speaking to people privately. Both that could help on a bigger scale and people that have been on this thread but not wanting to comment publicly.

(I have not been watching any Instagram stories nor viewing pages . I had to lick a few moral wounds over that, so thanks Tracey Black/ Rachaele.)

Anyway. I will be back tomorrow/ Saturday with something that I think will suit all of us that have commented here, that we can share and hopefully take further.
I hope that is okay with you all.
I didn’t ditch it, I just took a moment to focus
xxx
 
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Having gone through domestic violence myself, I would never put a DV victim on a huge platform because I know the feeling of vulnerability and fear that comes with it.
As they say, if something doesn’t sit right, it probably isn’t right.


 
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Having gone through domestic violence myself, I would never put a DV victim on a huge platform because I know the feeling of vulnerability and fear that comes with it.
As they say, if something doesn’t sit right, it probably isn’t right.
Same, I certainly wouldn't plaster my innocent children all over the Internet, let alone myself.
I have experienced this also and my personal life is mine and the people I choose to let in. There are so many paedophile rings out there to, and let's be fair, looking at innocent children on a very open platform is possibly the best place for these vile people to look.
 
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Where does Josh fit into it all is what I struggle to make sense of? He’s a policeman surely he can’t let his wife scam people and lie so openly ?
 
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Yep, she always used to put photos of Edie up when she was younger in the bath etc. If she fails to safe guard her own children properly I’d have serious doubts that she’d have the correct measures in place for helping to safeguard her warriors and their children.
 
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Where does Josh fit into it all is what I struggle to make sense of? He’s a policeman surely he can’t let his wife scam people and lie so openly ?
I ask myself this very question. When it comes to the book, he can only go by what she has told him. Josh only knew Rachaele through his sister being friends with her, and that relationship hasn’t always been fluid.
 
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Where does Josh fit into it all is what I struggle to make sense of? He’s a policeman surely he can’t let his wife scam people and lie so openly ?
But if she’s feeding him the same lies. I’m not being funny but she’s written a whole book that’s somewhat true what has she told him?

I believe he either doesn’t pay attention because he works and brings the kids up
Or his in on it and doesn’t really care.
 
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I ask myself this very question. When it comes to the book, he can only go by what she has told him. Josh only knew Rachaele through his sister being friends with her, and that relationship hasn’t always been fluid.
Her relationship with his sister?
 
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Where does Josh fit into it all is what I struggle to make sense of? He’s a policeman surely he can’t let his wife scam people and lie so openly ?
I've wondered this too. Surely he must question where her money is coming from and how she manages to so called help her warriors. I think because he's a police man people automatically think he would never be dodgy and that all the deception comes from Rachaele but I'm not sure, she is an expert bullshitter but surely he can't be that naive
 
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Her relationship with his sister?
Rachaele and Josh’s sister have been friends for years. Josh’s sister allegedly received money from the PayPal donations as helps run PTWM’s website and social media accounts and also responds to emails from people seeking DA help. PTWM pretty much said this herself in her stories a week or so ago. No idea if she pays tax on any money received or if she has any DA training.
 
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Yes, but apparently their relationship hasn’t always been fluid (ptwm and his sister)
 
Let’s face it, we all see on a semi regular occurrence news stories about coppers up to no good (not saying he’s complicit in the money stuff) but nothing sadly would surprise me anymore.

With the da stuff I was in a volatile relationship in my late teens and it really wrecked my mental health which was fragile to begin with and I only got better with professional support I was very vulnerable and someone such as ptwm would have no idea or skill to deal with a multi factored situation like that.
 
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I have some professional experience with DA, I'm aghast at the complete mishandling of the scary situation sent to a member of the public posted up thread.
The complexities of providing real help to someone reaching out for it are intense.
Who does PTWM think she is?! It seems to me she's damaging people's wellbeing as well as wallets.
Finally, Dear anyone that has experience of DA past or present, I'm sending love to you. xx
 
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