This is just my opinion and I'm not trying to moderate anyone, and it pains me to say this but when it comes to the boys on Instagram she can't win. There are posts about how she cuts the boys out and it's not fair on them, then when she does post them it's not fair on their mum. I dont think she safeguards any of the children at all and none of them should be on social media the way they are but in this case I feel like it's a bit of a difficult one.
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I think she tries wayyy to hard to be cool 
The videos with Seb, he was clearly laughing and the joke seemed more on the Nan than Seb to be honest, i did laugh at it a little. However i hate the way ALL influencers throw around these £90 back to school coats etc. Its above and beyond what a normal family can afford and it alienates the normal people following them!
I totally agree with you however she is broadcasting her intimate family dynamics to her 160,000 viewers. I wonder if the very sweet Grandma knew she was being filmed?
The way they are still referring to Wilby as “it” is really strange.
Two of your kids arguing; get out your phone and film it for thousands. Baffling.
Two of your kids arguing; get out your phone and film it for thousands. Baffling.
Not sure what I’ve done but yes. It and that baby. It beggars belief
Ok so this is only MY issue (not my only issue!) and I in no way want to upset anyone but I get annoyed how she acts like S and I are her sons. They arent. Whether they see their biological mum or not they are hers not Rs. She even described herself as ‘Mummy to 2 boys” (before W was born). I know they live with her and I totally appreciate she is bringing them up with all that entails, I know how hard that is but she isnt their Mum. Im a step Mum, my husband is a wonderful step Dad to my boys who have an absent father but STEP parents as much as they may love their step children they are STEP parents. Hope no one is offended by my comment. 
It upsets me too. My husband had two children already when I met him. I had to see firsthand his distress and devastation when his children started calling a new man Dad, had their names unofficially changed at school and started calling him by his name. Needless to say the new “dad” did a runner and all changed back but the hurt caused by his children calling another man Dad was horrible to see.Ok so this is only MY issue (not my only issue!) and I in no way want to upset anyone but I get annoyed how she acts like S and I are her sons. They arent. Whether they see their biological mum or not they are hers not Rs. She even described herself as ‘Mummy to 2 boys” (before W was born). I know they live with her and I totally appreciate she is bringing them up with all that entails, I know how hard that is but she isnt their Mum. Im a step Mum, my husband is a wonderful step Dad to my boys who have an absent father but STEP parents as much as they may love their step children they are STEP parents. Hope no one is offended by my comment.
She just has no respect whatsoever does she? She just sits back like the Queen of Sheba recording anything and everything whilst giggling like a teenager. Those kids are going to get to a stage where they really resent her for the lack of boundaries and privacy. She really needs to grow the duck up.
Completely agree, can you imagine her talking to B like that? It wouldn't happen. I hope if they do have disagreements J doesn't side with R unfairly over his son. It's sad to think about. I wish more than anything those boys had some sort of relationship with their mum.
I personally wouldn’t be able to stand it if my husband and I separated and the woman he cheated on me with started referring to my sons as “her boys”, regardless of the custody situation. I would be bereft, and I can only imagine that’s how the boys’ mother must feel. I guarantee she would be the same if the shoe was on the other foot and it were her daughters. I get everyone’s family dynamics are different, but we don’t see everyone else’s day to day lives via stories on Instagram. She must know their real mum will see it, and is further twisting the knife when she makes those posts. I’m not one of those who complain she doesn’t show the boys much either - to be honest, I think it’s for their own good they don’t feature as much as R’s daughters.Ok so this is only MY issue (not my only issue!) and I in no way want to upset anyone but I get annoyed how she acts like S and I are her sons. They arent. Whether they see their biological mum or not they are hers not Rs. She even described herself as ‘Mummy to 2 boys” (before W was born). I know they live with her and I totally appreciate she is bringing them up with all that entails, I know how hard that is but she isnt their Mum. Im a step Mum, my husband is a wonderful step Dad to my boys who have an absent father but STEP parents as much as they may love their step children they are STEP parents. Hope no one is offended by my comment.
, filming pointless I’ve never seen her talk to Betsy the way she does to Seb.
Watching her stories today made my heart break for him. He seems to be very sidelined and often appears quite frustrated by it.
When he was having a moment yesterday with his Dad, it was beautiful, it was also clear the baby was quite fine on his matt, it just felt like she had to find an excuse to make Josh tend to THEIR child over his other son.
Watching her stories today made my heart break for him. He seems to be very sidelined and often appears quite frustrated by it.
When he was having a moment yesterday with his Dad, it was beautiful, it was also clear the baby was quite fine on his matt, it just felt like she had to find an excuse to make Josh tend to THEIR child over his other son.
The kids fighting over the baby why would you film that that's a private matter not for people to see the poor boy just wants in on holding his baby brother as usual E takes over instead of filming it chat about how he fells maybe but e back in her place
He probably is poor child doesn't get a look in with the girls and the baby
Evening all, I’m back from a weekend away with my bestie, logged out of here for the duration but kept an eye on Rachel’s stories. Watching the ones of Seb just now made me feel really sad for him. Whether the coat fits or not, I don’t think that discussion is for Instagram and at one point he looked quite teary as she was raising her voice to him whilst clearly having her phone up in front of her. It’s such odd behaviour and I really feel sorry for all her children. I do think Edie and Betsy seem to get away with whatever they want and it’s a shame if Seb doesn’t feel he is able to bond with his baby brother because Edie hogs all the cuddles when she’s awake. But again, why film it? I never would have spoken to my stepson like that as didn’t feel it was my place and I certainly would not have filmed it and put it online if I had. At 14, he will have friends online who might see that and parents/teachers who may also see it and I just think it’s wrong. Poor boy.
Ffs, still referring the baby as ‘it’. I’ve never called my kids it. Yes he has a name Rachael but I just can’t find myself ever saying it.
Why is E having a 2 hour nap in the middle of the day?
cos she’s a baby....
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