Friend just had an emergency c sec and spent the first 2 weeks not being able to sit up alone let alone pick up her baby. Her partner had to hand the baby to her for every feed.
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You were back on your feet quick. I needed my babies handed to me as I couldn't move for a couple of days, the pain was excruciating. I couldn't sit up unaided let alone walk.
The point is still “Where Is The Money?”, but this thread would be a bit dull if we just kept chanting that alone because frankly, we’re not getting any concrete answers from anyone, are we?
Also, I agree with Lucyinthesky. There is nothing wrong with discussing the baby’s name. It’s just an opinion.
Also, I agree with Lucyinthesky. There is nothing wrong with discussing the baby’s name. It’s just an opinion.
Exactly this!!!! Theres stuff I don't paticularly agree with on here but you know what, i just scroll past. People that think they can tell others what can or can't be discussed is so condecending. Unless you are admin or mods no one has the right to tell us to 'cut it out'.Times change - years ago men weren't even allowed in the delivery room
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, really fed up of people trying to mod the thread themselves!
FYI I'm 36 but traditional with surnames - I took my husband's name so did my kids. Also not fussed on Wilby but then I'm not fussed on my best friends kids names choice eitherIt's my opinion!!!
Anyway R can you tell the people that donated where the money went?
MI only asked if private rooms were something that could be paid for because I had no idea - genuine curiosity, not a conspiracy theory! I also assumed the NHS had set rules so it’s interesting to see that it varies hugely but a bit sad that it depends on your post code whether Dad can stay or not.
I don’t understand why people are being precious about us discussing his name, it doesn’t mean we’re “taking it out on the kids”. It’s just opinions. My opinion on his name is not influenced by how I feel about his mother’s behaviour.
It didn’t take long for her to film herself feeding did it? It’s a shame for her family that nothing is off limits. It doesn’t surprise me that Seb wants to distance himself from being shown as I can imagine teenage boys might take the piss quite a bit if they’ve seen so much of your stepmum
with my youngest I had a natural birth, no epidural and couldn’t walk for three days due to back and hip pain. I had to be wheeled everywhere and helped to sit up. (Un)luckily baby was on NICU so I didn’t need help feeding.
I’m not sure why that first quote was in...
I don’t really know of anybody else that’s had a c-section personally, so it’s interesting to hear other people’s experiences and how they differ. My second was elective and a much more positive experience (I was awake, for a start!).
I had a section due to pre-eclampsia with IVF twins. I really didn't like the recovery I fainted trying to go visit twin 2 in icu so was bed bound for a few days
Tbh, if we aren’t allowed to discuss the content she is posting, there’s not much point to this thread. She will never address the PayPal concerns, I truly believe that now, and she clearly doesn’t give a single tit what anyone says here. She is smug and self-satisfied and has been for weeks, that’s only going to intensify now she has Josh’s baby, IMO. She’s convinced a lot of her followers that we are just trolls and she has the validation of over 50,000 people on her latest post.
So as long as we’re not being threatening or abusive, particularly to each other, I don’t see any reason why we can’t discuss everything about her, including the choice of baby names.
So as long as we’re not being threatening or abusive, particularly to each other, I don’t see any reason why we can’t discuss everything about her, including the choice of baby names.
I was taken back in 9 days after giving birth which is when they diagnosed sepsis, I could barely walk since I came out of hospital the first time. My partner stayed with me and our baby for the whole 5 days I was in. I was extremely anxious and the nurses and doctors could see having him there was much better for me. I was very lucky, I was put back on the delivery ward so they could both stay with me. Was the scariest experience ever, I thought I was going to die. I was even texting family to say goodbye
I was very very unwell but the staff were absolutely amazing. Couldn't have asked for better. I really have so much to thank them for.Aww, I’m sorry. That must’ve been really traumaticI had a section due to pre-eclampsia with IVF twins. I really didn't like the recovery I fainted trying to go visit twin 2 in icu so was bed bound for a few days
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She’s in hospital with ya know , Drs and Nurses 
and she’s asking Instagram for opinions from strangers
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This is how it’s going to be to bring in the big mummy money and freebies.
and she’s asking Instagram for opinions from strangers.This is how it’s going to be to bring in the big mummy money and freebies.
I know this is off topic but reading other people's experiences of c sections has reassured me so much. A couple of girls I know had sections around the same time as me and were up and about in hours. Yet I struggled, and then had sepsis. I felt like I was weak and that I had done something wrong. Why couldn't I be up and about like the others. It was like I'd been in a car accident, I had to build up walking around, room to room, down the garden, down the road, around the block etc. was a really hard recovery. Anyone who says c sections are easy or too posh to push can jog on. It's bloody hard!
So many different birth stories, thats why I feel pre natal mums (and dads) should be made more aware that things dont always go to plan, without scaring of course. I have had 3 differing experiences, 2 c sections,none of them positive and all traumatic. But 3 healthy boys so feel blessed. My friend has a boy called Wilbur, not my choice but it actually suits him!!
I’m glad you had great care and have managed to recover. The hospital staff who look after us at our most vulnerable truly are amazing and work so hard xI was taken back in 9 days after giving birth which is when they diagnosed sepsis, I could barely walk since I came out of hospital the first time. My partner stayed with me and our baby for the whole 5 days I was in. I was extremely anxious and the nurses and doctors could see having him there was much better for me. I was very lucky, I was put back on the delivery ward so they could both stay with me. Was the scariest experience ever, I thought I was going to die. I was even texting family to say goodbye
I think she has taken to her stories to discuss not being able to piss because she likes the drama and attention. Just sitting back and letting it happen wouldn’t bring in the thousands of sympathetic comments about how brave she is, would they?
Disclaimer: just my opinion, it’s what we’re here for.
Disclaimer: just my opinion, it’s what we’re here for.
Wilbur - that's what I've been thinking of. It's bloody babe the pigs name!!!
wow upmost respect to all you c-section'ers 
... the thought of it absolutely terrifies me and makes me want to vomit horrifically all over the crying NHS workers.
anyway back to the paypal issue, I still don't think she will address is now shes had the baby. Unless a newspaper does pick it up, which again i doubt i think she's just going to get away with it. And tbf anyone still donating after all the stories flying around over various SM pages are just plain stupid. Whats the old saying, a fool and his money are soon parted?
She's got a good 5 years of income now with the baby and I wouldn't be surprised if he isn't the last one, the #gifts and #ads will come rolling in and she wont be able to resist that cash cow. DV "work" will fade to complete nothing and her rebrand as a mum-fluencer will be sold, she's more than half way there already.
... the thought of it absolutely terrifies me and makes me want to vomit horrifically all over the crying NHS workers.anyway back to the paypal issue, I still don't think she will address is now shes had the baby. Unless a newspaper does pick it up, which again i doubt i think she's just going to get away with it. And tbf anyone still donating after all the stories flying around over various SM pages are just plain stupid. Whats the old saying, a fool and his money are soon parted?
She's got a good 5 years of income now with the baby and I wouldn't be surprised if he isn't the last one, the #gifts and #ads will come rolling in and she wont be able to resist that cash cow. DV "work" will fade to complete nothing and her rebrand as a mum-fluencer will be sold, she's more than half way there already.
I can honestly say I’ve never heard of the name Wilby before in my life. The closest is Wilf, which is what the Unmumsy Mum named her third son. I think that’s quite cute. They’ll probably get called Will when older though, surely?
I’ve had this feeling too and I’m not sure whyFor some reason I think she might change his nameNot sure why but every since I seen josh’s face I just thought mmm I feel like the might change it ..
Every nhs hospital is different. Some go on wards, some in private rooms and some you can pay for a private room. Some allow partners to stay overnight, some don’t.
My first my partner was sent home at 8pm, my second he was allowed to stay until I got moved on to the antenatal ward and then went so was midnight. My sister her partner was able to stay overnight on her first but not the second (same hospital but 2 years later, the policy changed).
I think some people are just not picking for the sake of it.
It should be about the PayPal and the lies and how we can accomplish finding out about it all constructively.
My first my partner was sent home at 8pm, my second he was allowed to stay until I got moved on to the antenatal ward and then went so was midnight. My sister her partner was able to stay overnight on her first but not the second (same hospital but 2 years later, the policy changed).
I think some people are just not picking for the sake of it.
It should be about the PayPal and the lies and how we can accomplish finding out about it all constructively.
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