That baby definitely ain’t newborn for a startOh bore off!!!! Who gives a duck about your boring child ffs
That baby definitely ain’t newborn for a startOh bore off!!!! Who gives a duck about your boring child ffs
Holy tit, sounds like a living nightmare! When will she realise R needs her own bed room and bed! Then she can read a story and R can go to her bed and self settle to sleep seeing as shes coming up to 4 years old!! I struggle to sympathise its all self inflicted.I don't even know where to begin with this one....
Could you imagine when R was a baby of someone dared say your baby is squawking? She'd be all over insta saying she's not squawking she's just communicating a need followed by a load of crunchy nonsense
This is what I don’t understand?! Why is Raven waking Ember in the first place?! ‘its like she can’t help herself.’Poor ember being woken up and then blamed for bad bedtimes!!
Its like she has switched roles in her head, that its Raven that is the baby and Ember is the 3 year old that keeps trying to wake the newborn.Holy tit, sounds like a living nightmare! When will she realise R needs her own bed room and bed! Then she can read a story and R can go to her bed and self settle to sleep seeing as shes coming up to 4 years old!! I struggle to sympathise its all self inflicted.
Especially when it's like shes blaming Ember whose 11 weeks old, for it all, rather than pulling up Raven on her bratty behaviourThis is what I don’t understand?! Why is Raven waking Ember in the first place?! ‘its like she can’t help herself.’
Hmm how about it’s like you’re her mother and YOU need to set boundaries for your child.
I can’t wrap my head around that post. I have a similar age gap between my kids and yeah when they were that age doing bedtime alone was a challenge but to heap blame on to one kid for disrupting things just seems so unfair.
Would be interested to see if she replies to themA few of the comments from that post say to let R settle herself to sleep. God forbid
Absolute joke how she thinks that’s all going to work out if she can’t even organise bedtimeShe’s also homeschooling R from September 4 days a week. She best get making Ember a Harry Potter type cupboard for under the stairs so she doesn’t disturb Raven’s education as well as her sleep and play time
My first thought was what an absolute mountain out of molehill. So much faf over nothing. Then I thought, what is a simple solution to most parents who have fully prepped there child for a sibling, took the 9 months of pregnancy to make changes to make parenting life easier with two, is not going to be such a simple solution for a parent who hasn't done any of that and have left them self with a child who isn't well adjusted.It is all Nicola. Solution is so easy. Move raven into her own room, can be a double bed. Put ember to bed first, raven can watch TV/iPad downstairs. Then put Raven to bed when she's ready in her own room. When raven wakes up Nicola can settle her if she won't accept dean and then Dean can sleep in with raven if needed. She is clinging onto the sleep space even though it doesn't work with 2 kids who will wake each other up.
Your welcome Nicola if you read on here. This is a gentle solution where all children's needs are met and you get 1:1 time with raven for bedtime.