Remember that time Niomi couldn't believe she had gone out of her way to go after a lady to give her the oyster card (or something) she had dropped without noticing? She was exhilarated because she had done something for someone else, it was really easy, and it didn't kill her. What is common decency and not worth mentioning for most people, is like getting it in the potty for the first time instead of the diaper for Niomi. Not being totally self-centered all the time (remember when she was pissed off because she had to give Lordon's relatives a quick lift somewhere because she was borrowing their car for a trip, but then realized it wasn't so bad after all?) is mind blowing for Niomi. Remember when she gave away one bundle of discontinued My Smart Skin products to one person after going on and on about how her brand was all about her amazing customers and community who made everything possible? Niomi is never going to be mindful of others, let alone selfless. It's not in her nature. It's not on her chart, she's not manifesting it, her angels and the universe don't want that for her, you could say.