He might already know Lottie as joes sister works in theatre. Joe still hasn’t removed pics or Niomi. I kind of see Niomis trick working of being go getting and selfish motivated....I think he may come crawling back- you know after his Maccy d and beer bender!!!
usually the person who does the dumping is slower to remove the pics. imagine if he deleted all traces of her right after he suddenly broke off their engagement? that would be some serious salt in the wound, and cruel. him not deleting anything to me is more proof that he was indeed the dumper. I dont think Niomi's fake happiness will work on him though - she was sweet and nice all the time, which is why it took so long for him to see the reality of his situation in the first place. by the time he dumped her I think he was able to FINALLY see past her sweetness. he likely kept convincing himself that any doubts he had were stupid/wrong bc 'look at this sweet beautiful girl in front of me, how can I find anything wrong with this'? no one is doubting she is nice/sweet. but that is not all that matters.. and unfortunately it hurt HER in the end, but if you strip it all the way down, the core problem is the same issue we all accuse her of - dishonesty & upkeeping a facade of everything being perfect. imagine if her food controlling behaviors were done in a more raw YOU CANT EAT THAT
witch sort of way. it would've been a discussion between them YEARS ago. & if she didnt change, he wouldve likely left years ago & saved both of them the wasted time. but bc she does it so sweetly, its like he couldnt call anything out. honestly it seems so much worse.
unfortunately this cycle will continue until she faces her facade of perfection with herself. be a
witch, Niomi. tell someone to
duck off when they say they dont like yoga. tell someone to shut the
duck up when they say eggs & bacon are better than your gray morning slop. flip people eating McDonalds the bird just for shits. and *gasp* dare I say it - HAVE MCDONALDS YOURSELF NIOMI. even just to prove she is capable of breaking her perfect routined rule dominating world. she is wound so tight, it is no way to live.