Do you have the wonder weeks app? Could be a load of bs but it helped me with my first as it was nice to have a 'reason' for fussinessFussy baby alert
Absolutely knackered. The baby is so fussy these last few days, he’s done a good lot of screaming today. He was so placid until this time last week and now he’s a super fuss pants.
also 'tiger in tree' hold is a fav of my boys xxIs it a full moon? Having a mare over here tooFussy baby alert
Absolutely knackered. The baby is so fussy these last few days, he’s done a good lot of screaming today. He was so placid until this time last week and now he’s a super fuss pants.
Must be!! Sorry you’re having a rough day xxIs it a full moon? Having a mare over here too
Yes lots of tiger-ing, to no availDo you have the wonder weeks app? Could be a load of bs but it helped me with my first as it was nice to have a 'reason' for fussiness
Hope he settles soon
I don’t use the WW app anymore, it definitely fitted well with my eldest, but my second screamed non stop so it got chucked as it was telling me he was in a sunny period and he was being demonic 
just checked Google and we are in leap 1, so maybe it will end soon (I’m not holding my breath though. The demonic eldest son means I’m prepped for this to last until he’s 2!)
another thing is the pp hair loss seeing my hair fall out in big chunks is so depressing I knew it was common but my hair is everywhere on every bit of clothing even on the baby 
and that lady who’s friend done a bunch of nice things for her I’d kill to have someone like that! Can already count on one hand the amount of people who said they’d come and visit and keep in touch who I haven’t heard from since baby was born.I totally agree. Everyone made such a fuss when my first was born and always offered to help out and visit. When I was pregnant this time around all I got was "I'll visit and be on hand to help out when you need it/when your partners back at work (12hr shifts)" and since then no ones offered to help. They all wanted to rush over when she was first born but now she's approaching 4 weeks, I'll get the odd text asking how she is but never how I am and not wanting to visit us anymore. It's so BS
Hi! I’m 3 months PP too from C section.Hi all had my baby 3 months ago now by c section does anyone else have pain after weeing? Like a kind of odd pressure from above the scar so weird
He nearly swallowed it 
I felt awful, but there isn’t alot we can do without spending a fortune on vitamins! 
- I was really looking forward to going through the newborn stage this time, knowing what i’m doing, even looking forward to the night feeds etc and generally being able to enjoy it more.Sending love, that’s a rough night. X
I agree about getting it checked out, but I would still sometimes get a bit of pain when using the toilet (5 weeks pp) but not every time.Hi all had my baby 3 months ago now by c section does anyone else have pain after weeing? Like a kind of odd pressure from above the scar so weird
I can relate to everything you're saying. Silent reflux really ruined the first 2-3 months of the newborn stage for me - he screamed, I cried tonnes. It's so so rough!!With my first i felt like the sleep regressions were never ending, we would come out of one, have a good few weeks and then another one would happen.
I remember reading online that most people only go through one of the regressions but not us, we went through it all!
good luck to everyone going through it, hopefully its just a short phase
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we had a good 2 weeks and then silent reflux hit and I feel its been taken away from me, and all i’m seeing online is everyone enjoying their newborn cuddles and days with their babies, i know most put their best bits online but i just feel sad That i can’t enjoy it, everything is tough, she has to be fed upright at all time so feel like i can’t engage with her when feeding,
she doesn’t like to be held much due to pressue on stomach and will constantly squirm in whatever position i hold her, can’t lie flat on her back at all, so nights are tough as I have to stay up all night holding her up right and she isn’t even that comfortable most of the time, and mainly its just tough seeing her in discomfort and unhappy all the time
my first had reflux and grew out of it by 4/5 months so hoping she will grow out of quickly too.
Some nights are just absolutely horrendous. My second was our worst sleeper by far. Cried non stop, up for hours during the night, would wake 8+ times every night. His whole first 3 years were a sleep regression! It is so hard to function on such broken, poor quality sleep. It makes everything else ten times harder to deal with. You really have got lots of sympathy from me today, because I’ve had many days wondering how on earth I’m going to survive because I’m so exhausted. I hope tonight is better for you
We also joke and say that he's been in a sleep regression since birth!! It's so hard isn't it. At what point did you find it improved? I feel so sad that 4 times a night up is considered a good night here!! I just feel like I must be doing something wrong for him to literally never sleep. Naps are so short in the day also!
It really does suck, i think lack of sleep is making it seem worse for me as well.
sorry to hear that, tbh I wouldnt worry about pissing him off, your body is still recovering, just because the usual advice is wait 6 weeks doesn’t mean you’ll be ready. you literally pushed a tiny human out!
Just tell him to back off. You’ve just pushed a baby out of your body which has torn you vag to butthole and he’s pestering you for sex in your sleep???!?? Tough tit if he gets pissed off, He needs to grow up is that’s the case!
I don’t want to scare you, but my son only started sleeping all night at 4.5 (years, not months!) probably from about 2yo it improved to only waking 2-3 times a night and going straight back over with a cuddle. The waking for hours stopped about 20 months, and that was fab as even being woken up 5+ times is better than being awake for 2+ hours every night!
I had a 3rd degree with my second and didn't have sex until 15 weeks after and even then it was still painful!
