How old is your baby? I found feeding so incredibly painful at first. Am only 4 weeks in so it could happen again. I got temporary relief from cool compresses, I have the Lansinoh thera Pearl pads from the freezer which gave temporary relief but I’ve heard even using a nappy with cold water poured in it can help! Put it in your bra.No one has said it’s bad thing to want to be someone else other than Mum it’s also not a bad thing that all you want to be is Mum. Everyone’s different we should just support each other.
personally I’m just Mum and one day I’ll be something else again, I’m happy and that’s all that matters not what other people think about that
on a different note this mum had spent the last 2 hours crying as I’ve been up feeding since midnight my nipples are now so painful I don’t want baby anywhere near them I just want sleep, it’s been like this for a week and I know it’s normal but with a toddler too look after I’m really running on empty. I can’t see an end to the tiredness yet rationally I know it does end!
I think women who manage a newborn and a toddler are superheroes