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I am at a loss baby wakes up every two hours she used to sleep all night honestly losing my marbles I look like I’ve been dug up xx
 
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I am at a loss baby wakes up every two hours she used to sleep all night honestly losing my marbles I look like I’ve been dug up xx
Your LO is teething isn’t she? I’ve found that’s what’s completely thrown out sleep out the window. If she chomps down a lot during the day and is in discomfort I give her calpol and anbesol before bed. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it doesn’t, hopefully it gets better for you soon! X
 
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I am at a loss baby wakes up every two hours she used to sleep all night honestly losing my marbles I look like I’ve been dug up xx
Snap she was thrashing and moaning since 2:30-7, even next to me in bed. Mr tango has her now while I catch up on sleep (but I’m literally browsing Amazon looking what to spend my money on)
 
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10 days later and My stitches are irritating the absolute duck out of me! Not sore or anything, just annoying and the maternity pads are irritating them 😭 I still have to wear them as I’m still bleeding 🙄 any relief from this? I’m using the spritz for bits spray but I want a bit more relief 😭
I feel you! That's one thing I remember from my stitches 😂
I just kept imagining dragging my butt across the floor like dogs do and imagining how much relief that would give me because it must work if they do it 😂😂

I ended up getting in the bath a lot. Just for 15 minutes or so
 
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@a.pain how did the rest of your night go? I wonder if baby couldn’t latch well if maybe you were a bit engorged, and that was frustrating her? If so, try expressing off a little bit first to soften your boob, and she may find it easier to latch. Sometimes then they get very hungry, in a bit of a tizzy and can’t settle themselves to eat, so you could try expressing a little bit of milk on to her lip, or just on to the end of your nipple so she gets the taste as that usually focuses them a little bit and helps them latch on with more purpose.
 
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Everleigh woke up every 20-30 minutes last night 👌🏻
And was then wide awake at 5am 😑
She has a cold, my 3 year old has a cold, I have a cold 😑
What a fun weekend it's going to be.
All whilst my partner is working night shift 😑
 
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Does anyone have a Tripp trapp high chair? Are they worth the ££? Can only find reviews from influencers which don’t sound genuine (probs because they got theirs for free) 🙄
 
@a.pain how did the rest of your night go? I wonder if baby couldn’t latch well if maybe you were a bit engorged, and that was frustrating her? If so, try expressing off a little bit first to soften your boob, and she may find it easier to latch. Sometimes then they get very hungry, in a bit of a tizzy and can’t settle themselves to eat, so you could try expressing a little bit of milk on to her lip, or just on to the end of your nipple so she gets the taste as that usually focuses them a little bit and helps them latch on with more purpose.
Thank you for asking, She settled eventually but not til about 3am so I’m pretty pooped 😴 Definitely not engorged, she’s been feeding so much my boobs are like empty socks. I’m thinking she was just overtired and like you say getting herself in a frenzy trying to calm herself. No idea though really 🤷🏻‍♀️ Sometimes you feed them so much you wonder how you could possibly have any milk left! I think most of the feeds last night were just her wanting a boob in her mouth to try and fall asleep as she was falling asleep pretty quick but every time I put her down she was instantly awake again and furious!
My 3yo was sent home from nursery yesterday with a vomiting bug, OH slept in with her last night as we thought she would require care through the night- nope she didn’t throw up and they both had a great sleep 🙄 while I slowly died in our room with the non sleeping baby
 
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These guys have mastered 5 hours sleep over night 🥳 Which means 4 hours of solid kip instead of 2/3. I mean did I sleep? Did I hell, I'm so used to them thrashing about constantly I kept checking they were breathing as they were too still, but progress 🥳😂
 
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Does anyone have a Tripp trapp high chair? Are they worth the ££? Can only find reviews from influencers which don’t sound genuine (probs because they got theirs for free) 🙄
Everyone I know with one really rates them. We went for the Ikea highchsir, cheap but really good and easy to clean. I'd have gone for a tripp trapp if I could have justified it while on mat leave!
 
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Does anyone have a Tripp trapp high chair? Are they worth the ££? Can only find reviews from influencers which don’t sound genuine (probs because they got theirs for free) 🙄
Yeah we used it ages for my daughter then just got the baby adapter thing this time round. He’ll sit in the newborn insert a while if he’s in the right mood, usually enough time for me to cram my dinner down 😂 so we’ve had it in use 6 years which softens the blow of the price 😆
 
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Being pregnant and not drinking for 10 months has absolutely ruined any tolerance to alcohol I had before. I went to my work Christmas drinks last night, deliberately stayed well clear of Prosecco, shots, mixing my drinks - I was drunk when I got home but not hammered and my god, the hangover today! I’ve been being sick all morning 🤢 I used to say it all the time but I genuinely think this might be the end of my drinking days, hangovers are horrible anyway but 10x worse with a baby to look after 😵💫
 
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Being pregnant and not drinking for 10 months has absolutely ruined any tolerance to alcohol I had before. I went to my work Christmas drinks last night, deliberately stayed well clear of Prosecco, shots, mixing my drinks - I was drunk when I got home but not hammered and my god, the hangover today! I’ve been being sick all morning 🤢 I used to say it all the time but I genuinely think this might be the end of my drinking days, hangovers are horrible anyway but 10x worse with a baby to look after 😵💫
It’s not worth it is it! Everyone is like ‘just one🥺’ when I talk about Xmas or out with friends… erm no co sleeping is my trump card for difficult nights why would I bin that opportunity!?
 
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Being pregnant and not drinking for 10 months has absolutely ruined any tolerance to alcohol I had before. I went to my work Christmas drinks last night, deliberately stayed well clear of Prosecco, shots, mixing my drinks - I was drunk when I got home but not hammered and my god, the hangover today! I’ve been being sick all morning 🤢 I used to say it all the time but I genuinely think this might be the end of my drinking days, hangovers are horrible anyway but 10x worse with a baby to look after 😵💫
It's easier to deal with once they hit around 5-6 and aren't as dependent 😂😂
 
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Guys, hold me.
I showed baby the Christmas tree (which the big kids have been decorating) and he did his first ever giggle. I'm a mess 😭😭😭
 
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Guys, hold me.
I showed baby the Christmas tree (which the big kids have been decorating) and he did his first ever giggle. I'm a mess 😭😭😭
🥰🥰🥰🥰 well that’s all the Christmas present anyone could need!!

Thank you for asking, She settled eventually but not til about 3am so I’m pretty pooped 😴 Definitely not engorged, she’s been feeding so much my boobs are like empty socks. I’m thinking she was just overtired and like you say getting herself in a frenzy trying to calm herself. No idea though really 🤷🏻‍♀️ Sometimes you feed them so much you wonder how you could possibly have any milk left! I think most of the feeds last night were just her wanting a boob in her mouth to try and fall asleep as she was falling asleep pretty quick but every time I put her down she was instantly awake again and furious!
My 3yo was sent home from nursery yesterday with a vomiting bug, OH slept in with her last night as we thought she would require care through the night- nope she didn’t throw up and they both had a great sleep 🙄 while I slowly died in our room with the non sleeping baby
Ugh my husband always gets a great night of sleep in with our toddler as he sleeps like the dead, she could bounce on his head and he wouldn’t know! I hope you’re having a quiet day, and you’re eyes aren’t stinging too much from the exhaustion.

enough time for me to cram my dinner down 😂
This sentence sums up the baby days perfectly 👌🏻 I eat like an animal at the minute to try and get it in before the baby kicks off. I’m finished and the kids are on their first pea 🤣
 
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This sentence sums up the baby days perfectly 👌🏻 I eat like an animal at the minute to try and get it in before the baby kicks off. I’m finished and the kids are on their first pea 🤣
seriously, or the baby will always wake up and need the boob right before dinner 😂
 
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Does anyone have a Tripp trapp high chair? Are they worth the ££? Can only find reviews from influencers which don’t sound genuine (probs because they got theirs for free) 🙄
my cousin has one and absolutely loves it. My MIL has bought our baby one but it’s still living in her house boxed up.
 
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Can confirm the (grinch 😉) pyjamas are very cute on and the Christmas tree is more fascinating than me..
 
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