Congrats @Chrisxo and welcome don’t be worried about asking questions! I was also a nervous wreck when Baby Rita came home xxx
For the first six weeks I slept sat upright in my glasses so I could see baby the second I opened my eyes you’ll always worry about them but that absolute terror you first get will passHi guys hope you don’t mind me joining I’ve just had my baby yesterday today is our first night at home and I’m a wreck I’m terrified something will happen to him in his sleep I’m scared he’ll overheat or be too cold I have him in my next to me with a short vest babygrow swaddled in a cellular then a knitted blanket tucked on too unsure of my room temp, we’ve also been doing so well at breastfeeding but now we’re home it’s went downhill I can’t sleep I’m terrified can anyone help I’m aware there will have been 100’s of posts like this
We will begin wearing our Christmas outfits starting Monday else I'll have to make 3 outfit changes a dayHow many Christmas outfits is too many, asking for a friend?
Only joking it’s me I am the friend because I think I’m on double figures already
This is an absolutely fantastic ideaAre my kids going to hate me if I try and find matching Christmas outfits for them?
I'm not sure how the 9yo will take it
I have more Christmas pjs and no day time outfits so it looks like he’s having his picture with Santa in a dressing gown. He’ll be 8 months meeting Santa twice in Halloween outfits the way I’ve goneHow many Christmas outfits is too many, asking for a friend?
Only joking it’s me I am the friend because I think I’m on double figures already
I've found matching dresses but they don't do matching or similar for boys.This is an absolutely fantastic idea
Have you looked in sainsburys. Sometimes they have matching B/G clothes, not that I've looked or anything, I have to peel the 9yo out of his football kitI've found matching dresses but they don't do matching or similar for boys.
He may end up in a dress at this point
Just to clarify, there's nothing wrong with boys wearing dresses snoop. But my 9 yo wouldn't be keen
If you don’t want to use formula, can we help you with some breastfeeding advice first? Why is it you feel you need it? What happened overnight?We were up all night no sleep babies dad has gone to buy formula I’m gutted I really wanted to breastfeed and feel like I’ve failed so early
You haven’t failed at all. I also struggled in the beginning with breastfeeding. We hired a lactate consultant and she helped a lot. I would also recommend trying different positions & places in the house it sit and get comfortable. Are you pumping / has your milk come in yet?We were up all night no sleep babies dad has gone to buy formula I’m gutted I really wanted to breastfeed and feel like I’ve failed so early
Firstly, you haven’t failed at all however you feed your baby. If you want to continue breastfeeding have you tried your midwives? Mine were very helpful when I had a similar issue in the early days. In reality, it is very very very normal for babies to cluster feed in the early days, it feels like they never stop and they can’t possibly be getting enough, but in reality they’re putting their order in and getting your supply up. Please reach out for support if you need it, but if you decide it’s not for you then that’s absolutely not a failureWe were up all night no sleep babies dad has gone to buy formula I’m gutted I really wanted to breastfeed and feel like I’ve failed so early
Am I going To have to set up an account?Whoever posted about the Christmas outfits on Vinted, I hope you know when I’m homeless it’s your fault