It’s our first big event Saturday without baby. I’m a stone+ heavier, body shape has changed, I’ve got bloody dermatitis on my hairline - let’s say I don’t feel great
![Weary face :weary: 😩](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f629.png)
… I feel 100x more elegant & presentable when my nails are done so since last Sat I’ve asked OH for a solid hour where I won’t need to touch her to do them. It hasn’t happened so I decided at 1am this morning when everyone was in bed to do them. Of course she woke half way through. OH, who this week has had 3hrs football, a hair cut & 6 more hrs football tomorrow, laid next to her, didn’t stir. I now have gel nails full of fluff and bits.
Obviously it’s not about the nails. It makes me feel so deflated. He’s usually such a supportive, present person and me non demanding. I know he need chill time too but it’s so unbalanced. We’ve talked about it many times but here we are.
Does it get easier as they get older in terms of shared responsibility parenting? Admittedly BF she is more reliant on me.