The blueberries in the deely boppers are the real MVPsThe birthday one is elite level though . He has good taste
The blueberries in the deely boppers are the real MVPsThe birthday one is elite level though . He has good taste
Honestly I think people will always say it. Tommy is nearly 6 months and I still hear it, it's worse now actually because now it's just morphed into "it won't ever get better!". You cannot spoil a baby and you most certainly cannot give them too much love of all things! Honestly I think people just say it to justify it to themselves that they didn't give their babies the amount of comfort they required and they feel guilty. Easier to just say other people are soft than admit you were a bit hard!At what point do people stop telling me because I can’t put the baby down that she’s spoilt? Every single time I see my mum, she makes a point repeatedly telling me she’s spoilt. I don’t know how I’ve kept my cool so long. But it’s really starting to bother me. If she isn’t saying how spoilt she is, she’s constantly commenting on how she looks, she never says anything bad but it almost comes across negative to me? It all could be hormones but it bothers me so much
People still say it to me now and Everleigh is 16? months.At what point do people stop telling me because I can’t put the baby down that she’s spoilt? Every single time I see my mum, she makes a point repeatedly telling me she’s spoilt. I don’t know how I’ve kept my cool so long. But it’s really starting to bother me. If she isn’t saying how spoilt she is, she’s constantly commenting on how she looks, she never says anything bad but it almost comes across negative to me? It all could be hormones but it bothers me so much
I don't think they do. My cousin still likes to tell me my 9 year old is spoilt because he'll always come for a random cuddle. And her son is 7 and won't hug her. She's tried to say it about the twins several times too, so I just snap back now that you can't spoil a child, holding them is protecting and comforting them and that's why they find you when they need you.At what point do people stop telling me because I can’t put the baby down that she’s spoilt? Every single time I see my mum, she makes a point repeatedly telling me she’s spoilt. I don’t know how I’ve kept my cool so long. But it’s really starting to bother me. If she isn’t saying how spoilt she is, she’s constantly commenting on how she looks, she never says anything bad but it almost comes across negative to me? It all could be hormones but it bothers me so much
I've had this with both my children, comments from both sides of the family about spoiling them by letting them contact nap or going to them when they cry. With my first I let it bother me, this time round I dont give two shits about anyones opinion. I'll be there for my kids if they need me, and I'll hold them if they need it even if they are grown adults. I am their mum ill never deny them the comfort they need from me.At what point do people stop telling me because I can’t put the baby down that she’s spoilt? Every single time I see my mum, she makes a point repeatedly telling me she’s spoilt. I don’t know how I’ve kept my cool so long. But it’s really starting to bother me. If she isn’t saying how spoilt she is, she’s constantly commenting on how she looks, she never says anything bad but it almost comes across negative to me? It all could be hormones but it bothers me so much
My mum said this to me so much at the start, I told her she didn’t hold me enough and that’s why I have depression, anxiety and popped antidepressants like smarties. She soon stopped.At what point do people stop telling me because I can’t put the baby down that she’s spoilt? Every single time I see my mum, she makes a point repeatedly telling me she’s spoilt. I don’t know how I’ve kept my cool so long. But it’s really starting to bother me. If she isn’t saying how spoilt she is, she’s constantly commenting on how she looks, she never says anything bad but it almost comes across negative to me? It all could be hormones but it bothers me so much
I love this. I get that contact naps aren’t always practical but I’ll bloody miss them when she refuses to cuddle meHonestly it's the best feeling in the world being your baby's safe space. When they are upset and they wrap their little arms around you and just melt into a snuffly cuddle and fall asleep. There is no greater joy or purpose to me than when your pet or baby sleeps soundly knowing they are safe and loved. I wouldn't trade that for a screaming baby, feeling scared and alone just so I can have more time hands free. I just don't get it. Who the duck can honestly relax and god forbid, sleep! with that going on? Even if he did cry himself to sleep eventually, I'd be in knots and wouldn't sleep a wink knowing how badly I made him feel. I'd take a lifetime of broken sleep if it meant he was happy.
Two days old People boast about getting their babes in their own rooms so early and I'm just like, that's really not the flex you think it is.I love this. I get that contact naps aren’t always practical but I’ll bloody miss them when she refuses to cuddle me
Has anyone read the Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read? I’ve just started it today and it is brilliant. My parents always make a big deal about the fact that they put me in my own room at two days old and tbh it makes me pretty sad to think of me as a baby alone in a cot in the dark
My mum always says I slept through the night from two days old. Then when my eldest was about six months old and still waking hourly I asked her more questions and it turned out she put me to sleep in the back bedroom as I made too much noise so I suspect I didn’t sleep through at all and she just didn’t hear meTwo days old People boast about getting their babes in their own rooms so early and I'm just like, that's really not the flex you think it is.
We brought this up ages ago as my Mum said we used to sleep through from an early age. Turns out she used to give us some stuff to make us sleepMy mum always says I slept through the night from two days old. Then when my eldest was about six months old and still waking hourly I asked her more questions and it turned out she put me to sleep in the back bedroom as I made too much noise so I suspect I didn’t sleep through at all and she just didn’t hear me
YES this is the story my mum repeats too! I was too noisy, yet then somehow miraculously slept through the night every night after that oh and they always knew why I was crying hahahahaMy mum always says I slept through the night from two days old. Then when my eldest was about six months old and still waking hourly I asked her more questions and it turned out she put me to sleep in the back bedroom as I made too much noise so I suspect I didn’t sleep through at all and she just didn’t hear me
Is it too early to declare this the next thread title?!I’ve just been tit on
I strongly suspect this is what most boomers mean when they say their babies were in their own rooms so early on!My mum always says I slept through the night from two days old. Then when my eldest was about six months old and still waking hourly I asked her more questions and it turned out she put me to sleep in the back bedroom as I made too much noise so I suspect I didn’t sleep through at all and she just didn’t hear me