Each to their own obviously, but I don’t think I could deal with sending the baby to nursery if I was just off to the gym for the day, there are so many mums at my gym who do this…maybe like 1 day a week but even so, I think I’d feel such guilt! Ask me again when I’ve started work
![Rolling on the floor laughing :rofl: 🤣](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f923.png)
You’ve all said it before but the childcare situation is so fucked in this country. It sounds like each and every one of us is having to compromise on what we want and what is best for our kids. Ideally, I’d have liked baby to go one less day a week but my job just isn’t do-able on less than full time, I just know I’d get passed by career wise (unless I magically climb ranks in the next few years and become senior enough to do what I want
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
) plus it’s just not financially worth it for us. Atm I’m doing 5 days in 4.5, i earn more money than mr B and he’s doing a 9 day fortnight so we’ll both get to spend some time with her. Not sure how we’d cope without the grandparents around either!
also very interested in the response re nannies/au pairs and nanny sharing. Tons of people I work with have nannies, but literally no idea on the realities of the costs and logistics of all of it…?!
we had this for a few days before testing positive
![Weary face :weary: 😩](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f629.png)
![Loudly crying face :sob: 😭](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f62d.png)
hope this isn’t the case for you!