I need somewhere to offload and I don’t know if this is the right thread but it is the only thread I can see which relates to parents. Anyway, my Mum and I are okay. We’re not that close as I’ve moved away from my home town, not far away but far enough because she won’t visit me. Since she retired she’s been really weird. Like I’m getting married in a couple of years and asked for help, I specified I didn’t want financial help but help with organisation and messaging suppliers that sort of thing, since she has the time and I work FT. However my parents have been kind and paid for certain things anyway. I asked for help the other day, was literally just to message a supplier because I was at work and she wouldn’t. I explained that the supplier is only open 11-3 which is my main working hours and she still wouldn’t - I missed out on the supplier. I don’t know why she won’t help. However today is what has really weirded me out/annoyed me. I woke up to lots of Facebook notifications which is weird for me as I hardly use it. She has went through birthday posts from friends on my birthday from 2019 and loved them all. I could understand a couple of likes here and there like a mid-click but not loving them all! Of course the friend and myself get those notifications so I asked her about it. She’s ignored my message which I can see she’s read. This is only two instances, there is more but these are the ones that are weirding me out at the moment and I don’t know what to do. Any advice?