I have quite a big family who in sections do not talk to others parts of the family. I do not live near them at all and their behaviour would stop me moving there if I was considering it.
There is no chance of reconciliation between these family members, they each think and feel very strongly that they are right, that they have done nothing wrong. This has been going on for a lot of my life and I’m approaching middle age now. They will keep these disputes and avoiding each other until they die, I’m telling you, the stubbornness for this is immense.
My reason for sharing this is that Julia and Nadia will never reconcile and I don’t think they should either. There is no point in being fake, life’s too short. When either/both of their parents die, they will just deal with it at the time. I’m sorry if that sounds hard, I just have my own experience of this stupidness and have no sympathy for any of them.
There is no chance of reconciliation between these family members, they each think and feel very strongly that they are right, that they have done nothing wrong. This has been going on for a lot of my life and I’m approaching middle age now. They will keep these disputes and avoiding each other until they die, I’m telling you, the stubbornness for this is immense.
My reason for sharing this is that Julia and Nadia will never reconcile and I don’t think they should either. There is no point in being fake, life’s too short. When either/both of their parents die, they will just deal with it at the time. I’m sorry if that sounds hard, I just have my own experience of this stupidness and have no sympathy for any of them.