I can only speak from my own emotionally abusive experiences but I chose not to have children due to the damage inflicted on me in childhood. I'd hazard a guess that having had decades of emotional abuse from Nadia Sawalha, Julia perhaps decided she didn't want children either.
As for Ashley Gardeners comments,
he's an imbecile and he's addicted to the Sawalha-Adderleys. He has a perverse relationship with their teenage daughters which I think it cause for concern.
Out of interest, can anyone figure this comment out, it was written supposedly by raspberry mojito girl to Ashley as a response to his comment but its signed Mark??? Is it what they call a sock puppet account where someone is pretending to be someone else? WHY IS IT SIGNED MARK????
Bizarrely Mark signs off with hugs on his msgs... I'm very confused by it!?