Will give that a try - thankyou!bloody heck!
Maybe google her name and the site is called The gossip bakery.
People are disgusting?? and it’s not disgusting to make money out of your children by plastering them all you tube, crowdfunding to buy a child from China when you evidently don’t need the money- giving the child away because he’s got too many special needs even though you said you wanted a child with special needs, going away to Bali and leaving your children while all this was going on, putting duct tape on your sons thumb but letting your biological kids suck their thumbs!!! Still trying to make money off you tube from other people’s channels I meant what the actual fuck is wrong with peopleView attachment 154748
comments like this enrage me.
I was going to say that maybe that user is young (as I expect their demographic is) and doesn’t understand the gravity of the situation but actually that doesn’t make it any betterView attachment 154748
comments like this enrage me.
I would personally (in the future if it’s possible) have biological children and adopt because I want to give someone a better upbringing. I’m sure many others agree too.Okay, so you don't know the story then? I'm still interested if somebody does know the background. I didn't imply anybody was "settling." When people who can have kids also adopt--there is often a reason. Examples include, "I just love having kids and want to have more" or "I just have more love to give than my limited reproductive system allows." Or sometimes people mistakenly think they are infertile and are surprised to find out after adoption that they can have more kids. I didn't know if they heard about this child with special needs and he captured their heart and they wanted to care for him or if they first set out looking to adopt and then found a child with special needs and adopted him.
My understanding was that adoption was often a challenge and that they often didn't like to adopt out babies in particular to those who have the capability to have biological children, probably to avoid problems exactly like this one--the parents ending up showing a painful preference for their own child. I also thought that adoption agencies generally show preference to those who cannot have their own children because that seems to make more sense and be more fair.
I know three families who have adopted multiple children despite having bio children of their own. When they did so, it was older children, often several from the same family. In none of these cases was there mixing of their own bio babies and adopted babies--I imagine this is because it's kind of hard to have one small child, let alone two, so most people don't add a third to the mix, particularly a profoundly special needs one with an unknown background from a country known to have some shady adoption practices. To me this story sounds like it was a bad idea from the get-go. I've honestly not heard of people who have small children adopting an additional small child and then having more small children. It just seems like a weird choice and I'm still wanting to know the background.
Part of my confusion stemmed from my understanding that it was not the norm for people with 3 small children to adopt a fourth small child (and then have a fifth). This has been cleared up pretty much. Myka could not adopt a baby in many countries (presumably including the United States) because she already had multiple small children and had no fertility issues (she stated this in this video at the 7:30 mark). This is basically why she adopted from China. She could have adopted from an African country as well, but she was impatient. The only way she was going to be able to adopt from many countries would have been if it was an older child, a profoundly special needs child, or orphaned siblings. The last option there is the path that all three of the families I know with bio as well as adopted children took--orphaned siblings. I think it's obvious now that Myka did not adopt Hux because she wanted to give him a better upbringing, or she could have taken other easier options. She specifically wanted an adopted baby and this was the only way to get it. Bonus points for him being sympathetic coming from what most assume is a traumatic environment.I would personally (in the future if it’s possible) have biological children and adopt because I want to give someone a better upbringing. I’m sure many others agree too.
They're 100% banking on Stauffer Garage having a different target audience and being able to keep up his channel. Sadly, I think it’ll probably work.Interested to hear how people think this is going to play out? She can’t seriously think she can go back to vlogging after this?
Do we think that she’ll persist with this cash crush Instagram? Rely on James channel considering it’s a different audience? Give up and go back to nursing?
I don’t understand why someone would put so much effort into getting a good degree with a pretty much guaranteed job if they always planned to quickly become a SAHM. No judging, I just literally don’t understandThey're 100% banking on Stauffer Garage having a different target audience and being able to keep up his channel. Sadly, I think it’ll probably work.
Not a chance Myka goes back to nursing! She wanted to be a SAHM from the beginning. Much more likely James returns to his engineering career (while also doing all the work for his channel). Maybe next school year she’ll start homeschooling again, but only if she thinks she can get her channel going again. I think she’ll just be a SAHM and maybe re-attempt her own YouTube or help with James channel marketing or something.
It kind of reminds me of catching Pokémon"Gotcha day" is a disgusting term. Hugely offensive, and ignorant of the pain of adoption for the birth child and birth mother.
Yep and Pokemon could also be traded.It kind of reminds me of catching Pokémon
What a load of bullshit she has posted!She had posted! Not sure it helps. What do you guys think?
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