That’s exactly how I was trying to phrase it. Very well put. No one cares about your kids only you and a few immediate family Memeber’s no matter what your situation is. She’s really to be pitied.I’d say the result of a life always overlooked. Both ivf and the twin pregnancy gave a lot of attention, as well as the social media page taking off at the time too, but now she’s just a mother of two and no one cares again. That brief window was probably the highlight of her life and she’ll continue trying to chase that high
I did pity her for a long time until she started scamming her way through life. She could be setting a good example to her girls by working an honest, hard job, saving a deposit for her own house etc.That’s exactly how I was trying to phrase it. Very well put. No one cares about your kids only you and a few immediate family Memeber’s no matter what your situation is. She’s really to be pitied.
I completely agree with you. She’s not setting a very good example to those girls. That’s what I always worry about “Am I setting a good enough example to my children?” Like working hard,having a clean house,being independent and I know I am because they are even growing up the same,3 are only little people but even when I’m off work,I’d notice them trying to help around,even yesterday they were here “I’ll help you tidy Mama!” And they didI did pity her for a long time until she started scamming her way through life. She could be setting a good example to her girls by working an honest, hard job, saving a deposit for her own house etc.
She'd rather live in her parents' home, worming money out of desperate people, taking up valuable creche spots for no reason.
She's a parasite.
I noticed the hand flapping alright a couple of times and the camera was swiftly moved away to Ayda alright. Tbh I wouldn't know much about stimming though.I know I probably shouldn’t say this but Hazel is clearing stimming in those playground videos, each time she did it Lisa cut off the video or moved onto Ayda.
I’ve noticed it before today. It could be nothing, some toddlers/young children do it & grow out of it. My friends little one used to look like she might take off & she’s a thriving teen now with no issues. But, when you put it alongside obvious speech delay, little eye contact & obvious zoning out, I’d be looking further into it. I’m not trying to be a perfect parent passing judgement, I had concerns about one of my own at the twins age & went straight to my PHN about it.I know I probably shouldn’t say this but Hazel is clearing stimming in those playground videos, each time she did it Lisa cut off the video or moved onto Ayda.
I hope Lisa has mentioned this to her PHN or gp and should Hazel have a diagnosis of any kind that Lisa respect Hazels privacy even more so and not turn it into contentI know I probably shouldn’t say this but Hazel is clearing stimming in those playground videos, each time she did it Lisa cut off the video or moved onto Ayda.
I imagine she’d turn it into content, she keeps nothing private as far as I can see.I hope Lisa has mentioned this to her PHN or gp and should Hazel have a diagnosis of any kind that Lisa respect Hazels privacy even more so and not turn it into content
Some of it too must fall on Lisa having the phone in their faces all the time. From the flash on when they were very small to now wanting them to "perform" for the camera , I wouldn't blame hazel for zoning out. And she has them in the routine of being glued to the tv from when they get up in the morning, is it 6.30am? So they probably have 2 full hoursI’ve noticed it before today. It could be nothing, some toddlers/young children do it & grow out of it. My friends little one used to look like she might take off & she’s a thriving teen now with no issues. But, when you put it alongside obvious speech delay, little eye contact & obvious zoning out, I’d be looking further into it. I’m not trying to be a perfect parent passing judgement, I had concerns about one of my own at the twins age & went straight to my PHN about it.
Agreed, there’s a good chance it’s probably nothing but she must wonder herself. There are a lot of videos being shared with no sound nowSome of it too must fall on Lisa having the phone in their faces all the time. From the flash on when they were very small to now wanting them to "perform" for the camera , I wouldn't blame hazel for zoning out. And she has them in the routine of being glued to the tv from when they get up in the morning, is it 6.30am? So they probably have 2 full hoursof it before they go to the creche days they are there. The PHN should be seeing them when they turn two and might refer her for speech therapy
Unfortunately I know too much about stimming and see it everyday, as my oldest has SN I was then hyper aware of everything my others did! Look I’m sure I’m wrong I mean we are only seeing very tiny snippets of the child but I just feel for her every time I see her she looks a little lost, she’s a gorgeous little girlI noticed the hand flapping alright a couple of times and the camera was swiftly moved away to Ayda alright. Tbh I wouldn't know much about stimming though.
Not just content, she’d have a PHD in whatever diagnosis either of the twins get throughout their lives, be it short or long term. Remember RSV?I imagine she’d turn it into content, she keeps nothing private as far as I can see.
I'm just baffled by the motivation to record this and post it online. If and when I am lucky enough to have a baby, no way in hell would I be uploading videos to the internet. Such natural interactions also, HA!"The Eye" from the other day 🫢
Why do influencers think this is content?? Who wants to see this?!
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