I'm the same, toddlers own cutlery comes with us in their bag. We have a set at home and a set in their bag.I absolutely hate to admit this because I’m definitely no Lisabut I was away Friday for the weekend with 3 toddlers and I took their toddler forks,spoons,etc with me,mainly for the 1yr old but they would have been fighting over those so I took them all with me to avoid any arguments over cutlery.