I do think the first few replies dictate the tone of the thread though. There was a thread recently from someone who thought they’d been ‘kept hidden’ because her husband didn’t want her to come on a works do. The absolute drama of it all. The majority of replies ranged from ‘he’s having an affair’ (of course) to ‘he’s probably gay and shagging a workmate’ (I mean isn’t it obvious?!). Instead of the more sensible ‘so what?’MN really is the strangest place. If someone posted that they’re annoyed that their husband bounced in steaming from a night out, the response would be that he’s clearly a dangerous, raging alcoholic and they need to LTB. But sometimes when someone posts about an actual make or break issue, it’s ‘I couldn’t get worked up about this’.
Why anyone still asks for advice on there is beyond me.
Are you insinuating that the most logical reason your husband might not want you to come to a work night out isn’t that he’s having a gay affair?? You need to give your head a wobble!I do think the first few replies dictate the tone of the thread though. There was a thread recently from someone who thought they’d been ‘kept hidden’ because her husband didn’t want her to come on a works do. The absolute drama of it all. The majority of replies ranged from ‘he’s having an affair’ (of course) to ‘he’s probably gay and shagging a workmate’ (I mean isn’t it obvious?!). Instead of the more sensible ‘so what?’
Er, no. That was sarcasm.Are you insinuating that the most logical reason your husband might not want you to come to a work night out isn’t that he’s having a gay affair?? You need to give your head a wobble!
Er, yeah so was my postEr, no. That was sarcasm.
SorryEr, yeah so was my post
BIB - absolutely. And that's something that will never cease to amaze me. It's a very well known website, not some secret club where nobody will ever see it, apart from the select members, of course...That’s what gets me. The only thing I’m judging them about is putting it online. Dress how you want, have a scruffy house (up to a point) if you want, but if you’re putting it out there, so to speak, I’m going to judge you. The thing is, these are probably the same people who can’t understand IG and why people post stuff online. They seem to think MN is some sort of cosy corner of the internet no one knows about so it’s safe to post these things. The same kind of people who can’t understand why their posts whinging about their mother in laws end up in the Daily Mail.
If you’re putting it on the internet, it’s fair game I’m afraid.
But darling that would be SO OUTING, especially if you could see evidence of DH"s VERY NICHE, VERY UNUSUAL, VERY OUTING hobby.Dp you upload photos of yourself in front of a dirty mirror, wearing clothes ransacked from the 50p rail at Scope, though?
A pushbike, golf clubs or a Man U scarf reflected in the mirror? Extra points for all 3.But darling that would be SO OUTING, especially if you could see evidence of DH"s VERY NICHE, VERY UNUSUAL, VERY OUTING hobby.
No darling it's even more obscure hence so TERRIBLY OUTINGA pushbike, golf clubs or a Man U scarf reflected in the mirror? Extra points for all 3.
They do medieval battle re-enactments. Or are still in the scouts.No darling it's even more obscure hence so TERRIBLY OUTING
No darling absolutely not!They do medieval battle re-enactments. Or are still in the scouts.
On another site I post on we have an incorrigible oversharer. She is on about her fifth alias now as she keeps getting doxed because she can't shut the fuck up about herself, her job, her husband's job and where they live.BIB - absolutely. And that's something that will never cease to amaze me. It's a very well known website, not some secret club where nobody will ever see it, apart from the select members, of course...
Also the reason I refuse to believe (among many many other topics) the work related ones. Apart from the fact that if you had a six figure salary at some huge company, it would have its own HR and most likely it's own legal department, but also why would anyone post on a well known website - 'how will I manage this very specific outing situation'! As if!
Dib dib dibThey do medieval battle re-enactments. Or are still in the scouts.
I think they think their being ‘edgy’. Whereas we think they look like vagrants.Why would you thoughI just don’t get it at all so they think they look stellar or are they looking for advice?
Or modelling for a charity shop. Bless them and their delusions. My favourite is the Bay City Rollers fan in her tartan suit.I think they think their being ‘edgy’. Whereas we think they look like vagrants.
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